Can't believe I'm doing this...

2 ways this can go IMO

She will talk to friends who all WTF because their partners watch porn too. She will then come crawling back.

She will talk to friends who all ask partners about porn and leave them too . She will then go live on a feminist commune with them
 
I once had two coppers come to my door, whilst I was watching some porn. I let them in, as I'm a good citizen and wanted to help with their enquiries, but had a bit of an awkward rush to the living room to turn off the monitor before either of them got into the room.
 
Ahleckz said:
I once had two coppers come to my door, whilst I was watching some porn. I let them in, as I'm a good citizen and wanted to help with their enquiries, but had a bit of an awkward rush to the living room to turn off the monitor before either of them got into the room.
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I did something similar when browsing a few sites one day and a housemate came to the bottom of the stairs wanting to talk to me. They called me, I walked out of the room, met them on the stairs and was chatting away.

Only realised why they kept looking over my shoulder as we talked after I turned to re-enter the room:

I hadn't closed the door behind me, and the monitor directly faced the doorway. So, hovering behind me throughout our entire conversation was a rather spread-eagled young lady in the buff. Nobody said a thing about it, though, which confused me. If I was the other guy I probably would've just went "Niiiiice!"
 
I don't think continually apologising is the right thing to do unless you genuinely wish you hadn't watched any porn and intend never to watch it again. There's no point in showing remorse for something you fully intend to carry on with in the hope that she doesn't find out. Which leads me to....

To all the people who are saying "LOL, you admitted it?" well little things like that can build up a crap relationship. It's like the 50 year old men that daren't tell their wife that no they don't want to drive her round 14 furniture shops on a Saturday or no they don't want to go to some distant relatives wedding etc etc. Instead of just being themselves they pretend to be something they are not and are very unhappy about keeping up the act to please someone else.

A long time ago I used to see a girl who was like this. If Ibiza uncovered came on the TV and I didn't leap out of my seat to change it, she would be in a mood all evening. Most people didn't have the internet then though.

I wouldn't go as far to say I wouldn't see a girl who had this issue but if I did, I wouldn't make any allowance for it. She would have to like it or lump it so it probably wouldn't work anyway but it would be her problem not mine.


Stoner81 said:
OP I know exactly how you feel... my ex-wide was a similar sort of woman (though she never gave **** all in the latter stages of our relationship).
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what does that mean?:confused:
 
The same happened with me, exact same feelings from her about the situation.

After a while, with lots of time spent discussing it, I think she started to understand that there's absolutely no emotional connection to most guys watching porn, it's just there as a tool.

She knows I watch it now and she isn't exactly fond of the idea but knows it's just something guys do.

If the tables were turned, I think I would initially feel jealous too, but we all know that porn's just something to wack away to.
 
I've been in this predicament, I said it's what men do. She didn't like it but she came around eventually.

Got to stand firm on this unless you dont intend to watch more porn.

Just tell her I was watching porn before you came along and i'll be watching porn when you have gone. lol
 
I think all men whack off at all ages until the day they die, I bet Dimple will do it as much today as some 14 year old kid who just saw his first boobie.

My dad will do it, your dad will do it and even your grandad if he's knocking about. My ex-wife used to work in an old folks home when she was 18-19, they used to stroke it out all day every day and the women were just as bad, they didnt have porn though, just young nurses to leer at.
 
My OH finds it a bit wierd that I might 'occasionally' use 'gentlemanly materials' if one of us is away. She knows that I'm more than satisfied with her, it's more that it's over strangers she finds odd rather than the act itself.

I make a conscious effort not to frequently as I know she dislikes it and it makes her feel a bit insecure even if she doesn't say.

We do watch bloopers together for the lulz though!

OP's missus sounds like she needs to wake up a bit. I'd be suprised if she's not flicked the bean over twilight.
 
Metalface Mark said:
I think all men whack off at all ages until the day they die, I bet Dimple will do it as much today as some 14 year old kid who just saw his first boobie.

My dad will do it, your dad will do it and even your grandad if he's knocking about. My ex-wife used to work in an old folks home when she was 18-19, they used to stroke it out all day every day and the women were just as bad, they didnt have porn though, just young nurses to leer at.
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I imagine Old Man Dimple only ejects dust nowadays though. :p
 
mame said:
I don't think continually apologising is the right thing to do unless you genuinely wish you hadn't watched any porn and intend never to watch it again. There's no point in showing remorse for something you fully intend to carry on with in the hope that she doesn't find out. Which leads me to....

To all the people who are saying "LOL, you admitted it?" well little things like that can build up a crap relationship. It's like the 50 year old men that daren't tell their wife that no they don't want to drive her round 14 furniture shops on a Saturday or no they don't want to go to some distant relatives wedding etc etc. Instead of just being themselves they pretend to be something they are not and are very unhappy about keeping up the act to please someone else.

A long time ago I used to see a girl who was like this. If Ibiza uncovered came on the TV and I didn't leap out of my seat to change it, she would be in a mood all evening. Most people didn't have the internet then though.

I wouldn't go as far to say I wouldn't see a girl who had this issue but if I did, I wouldn't make any allowance for it. She would have to like it or lump it so it probably wouldn't work anyway but it would be her problem not mine.
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Well said.
 
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