I'm using this at the moment, smells really nice and does the trick.
http://www.thebrightonbeardcompany.co.uk/products/creampot_toms_beard_balm
I've tried the beard oils from there too, but prefer the balm. Need to get a good brush though.
Yep, exactly what I use. I find the oil doesn't last long though, the balm is much better.