I'm not sure what relevance that has to anything whether at some point in the past she was genuinely prepared to stay. She decided to leave in the end and that is what people have referred to as her running away - that shouldn't really be in dispute.
And as I've said, this was never in question. Only certain parts I am highlighting that people are getting worked up over before we have enough information to say things without question. I am merely pointing that out. It's the same with the incident of that alleged gang rape incident lately in cyprus, before it was found out the girl had a severe case of regret and fabricated certain parts of it up. Many people began hurling names and calling the men scum, before enough information was available to conclude without a doubt they deserve that name/title. We can only say without a doubt she left, but as we are in the dark over certain aspects of it, we have no idea what lead her to make the decision to leave.
It isn't pointless it is a valid thing to be concerned about and the family have valid questions about it that they'd like to have answered - it would also be good if this stuff was treated differently in future, especially if she wasn't necessarily entitled to diplomatic immunity.
I meant it's pointless because she is no longer in the country. Not about discussing future uses of DI, to which again, I have not said was pointless, merely about the current situation as it has already passed (and no amount of raging would change over).
As for who brought up the immunity - well indirectly we know she wasn't arrested and taken away and she had time to go back to the car etc.. while a passerby started assisting - she may have called her husband/the base then... either way wouldn't the police normally arrest someone when a death has occurred - AFAIK they would, in this case they talked to her at the scene then later interviewed her in her home on the base - that does strongly suggest that she invoked some claim of immunity from the start. We'll probably find out more at a subsequent enquiry - the family certainly aren't dropping this.
That is indeed a strong suggestion and I am not disputing what that leads towards. Only that without evidence to confirm it otherwise, would be a bit too soon to jump on it as irrefutable evidence and so free reign for us to dog pile onto.
Yes he has, given people know them then as soon as she was exposed he was too - his name is apparently Jonathan Sacoolas. He's not an "asset" an "asset" or agent is an informant/source of information they don't really want to be discovered, generally a foreign national - he's a US citizen and apparently either an NSA or CIA officer.
Well, he's basically one of their secret services people who would have remained anon until this incident largely. Unlike the wife, the husbands picture is not plastered all over the place. And likely currently under observation for tagged removal if any are found in the open. So, in my opinion, probably still viable for future foreign deployments.
Because she's a grown adult, of course there is likely some heated discussion with the US over this but they can't force someone against their will and/or she's perfectly free to do the right thing and voluntarily come back here too. All they've done is advise her to leave and provide an easy means for her to do so - they can't kidnap her or force her to leave, she could have exercised some moral courage and stayed but instead she chose the easier route and fled the country.
If this was a person employed not by the secret/security services, this I can definitely agree with. Being moralistic over the matter is more of your own choice. But as the husband is employed by the US secret services, it's not a simple matter of being moral. We have a "moral" Snowden, but all that did was expose the assets of the US and some of their allies (including our own), as well as make it tougher for agencies to snoop on groups more easily. As an active officer, the husband could do just as much damage; Either because he feels the US government didn't help him enough over his wifes situation, or because the wife becomes compromised and thereby compromising the officer themselves (either case is possible). Neither situation is desirable for the US, on the intelligence front, or any military front either.
And of course, whilst its all very easy to say the ideal moral person should do the "right" thing. We all know we are all different in reality. Every situation is different. Every moment is experienced differently. For all we know, the decision to leave is the hardest and worst decision they had to make, but they made it because of so many factors that rely on them doing so, even if its a crappy one. I mean, really? No one has had to make a crappy decision before where its obviously in the "wrong", but you had to because so much more was depending on you as well? Not everyone can make that call. And this woman might have made that call, before she had children maybe, so her mind is not clouded with their future, or the husbands job and how it impacts on them as she wasn't as patriotic before meeting him, etc. The thing I'm saying is: It's very easy to say what we will/should do, but it's very different when the time comes itself to make that call. How many of us have changed over the last 15 years? Granted, some hardly change (if at all) but they're not all that common. But would some of us really do what we thought we'd do 15 years ago today now? How the week before? Before a family member died, causing you to change views on what is important?
In short, wait for more info before throwing names, labels and claiming how they lack of courage or moral, etc. This is of course, over the situation that she's not in the UK, not the accident itself, to which again I say is not in question and not unfair to comment on. Only the rest afterwards where its all vague that we should hold off from dog piling onto for now, as we could be just as unfair as how we are perceiving them to be.