Soldato
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Do you not think that for some people sex is an important part of relationship?
I never said it wasn't?
As for the last part the only people who'd think that are the same ones throwing insults at this woman, or people who probably want to do the same.
I'd suggest people who believe a guy wouldn't 'get away' with this or that he'd be attacked for it go and inform themselves by reading or listening to some sex positive people actually talk about their experiences and the thinking behind it.
And I didn't insult her. I just called out what I perceive to be the real situation to be, admittedly a bit harshly since - some props to her - she at least had a discussion about it first instead of just going behind his back.
I'll re-iterate: I have no problem with the situation as it played out between those 3, but her portrayal within the article and the associated book irks me no end, because it essentially dresses up the fact that she wanted to explore her sexual desires with other people into an a new push for polyamory when in fact she was just not sexually satisfied in her marriage.
I'm inclined to say that 99% of people who are truly polyamorous know it before 12 years into their marriage. But hey, maybe she's in the 1%?