My ex-wife has decided to withdraw my access to the children citing my lack of responsibility as a parent. The youngest bumped his head falling backwards after taking a photo. The fact that we are in court in two weeks time re/ financial settlement I can't help but feel this is purely using the children as a weapon to try and leverage more from me. She wants to keep the house, but as a £20k part time worker she's going to struggle to pay the mortgage on a £300k house...expects me to pay the whole thing for the next 15 years and then accept that her 'maintenance' of the house means I only get 15% of the value back... It's despicable that she's using the children in this manner.