Fancy dress, am i being harsh!

pioneer2000 · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:22

If she really cared about YOUR feelings, she wouldn't dress in such a way in order to get attention from boys.

If she's in a relationship, why does she need to dress slutty on a night out exactly? Sure, it's because everyone else is and it's fun.... obviously :rolleyes:

Rule of life - women LOVE attention. She's dressing like that because that way she'll have all sorts of attention from other guys, irrespective of whether or not she actually does anything. It's pathetic and she should really take into consideration how it would make you feel.

brightside229 · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:25

Well why do women go out in dresses outfits etc like these? one reason... for attention from the oposite sex, and if they go just because they are being forced to by friends, they will still get this attention all night, slimey men all over my girlfriend all night long, and that thought a lone is enough to make me not want her to go, am i not making sense at all here?

I would in no way go out on a night out dressing like this to impress other girls while i was in a relationship, why should she, just because she is female?!

I guess part of the fun of the night is the attention they are getting which is why women do this...

[FnG]magnolia · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:27

pioneer2000 said:
If she really cared about YOUR feelings, she wouldn't dress in such a way in order to get attention from boys.

If she's in a relationship, why does she need to dress slutty on a night out exactly? Sure, it's because everyone else is and it's fun.... obviously

Rule of life - women LOVE attention. She's dressing like that because that way she'll have all sorts of attention from other guys, irrespective of whether or not she actually does anything. It's pathetic and she should really take into consideration how it would make you feel.

brightside229 said:
Well why do women go out in dresses outfits etc like these? one reason... for attention from the oposite sex, and if they go just because they are being forced to by friends, they will still get this attention all night, slimey men all over my girlfriend all night long, and that thought a lone is enough to make me not want her to go, am i not making sense at all here?

I would in no way go out on a night out dressing like this to impress other girls while i was in a relationship, why should she, just because she is female?!

I guess part of the fun of the night is the attention they are getting which is why women do this...

These comments say far, far more about you as people than they do about the women you think you're passing judgement on.

Dj_Jestar · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:28

[FnG]magnolia;20006249 said:
These comments say far, far more about you as people than they do about the women you think you're passing judgement on.

Beat me to it.

Cuchulain · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:29

brightside229 said:
Well why do women go out in dresses outfits etc like these? one reason... for attention from the oposite sex, and if they go just because they are being forced to by friends, they will still get this attention all night, slimey men all over my girlfriend all night long, and that thought a lone is enough to make me not want her to go, am i not making sense at all here?

I would in no way go out on a night out dressing like this to impress other girls while i was in a relationship, why should she, just because she is female?!

I guess part of the fun of the night is the attention they are getting which is why women do this...

Nice Victorian attitude there, and just because you won't go out in a mankini, don't spoil everyone elses fun.

brightside229 · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:32

who are they trying to impress with their skimpy outfits? clearly not me since im not their lol

weringo · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:33

Trust is one thing but:

Never been drunk + dressed like a **** + out with a load of slags = she's getting rammed

garyfl · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:34

regardless of all your comments GD, i see where hes coming from and im sure weve all been there, its just how we deal with it. Your just going to have to stomach it op shes going out to have fun, i get that, thats ok and your ok with that too, what i think people are getting mixed up about here is your not actually saying she cant go out and enjoy herself, your saying your uncomfortable her going out looking like a tramp, with tramps, she might as well have a siren attatched to her. Your right to feel this way and rightly so, have a chat with her, fair enough shes going out anyway you cant stop that, girls need that socialness, but see if you can meet halfway, your accomodating her going oout, now lets see if she can accomodate your peace of mond and happiness by not wearing something so skimpy at least, You both gain from this.

EdGey · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:34

More serious answer - Can't say I would approve of this, whether I trusted her or not.

Dj_Jestar · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:38

Here's a more mature answer for you OP:

Most people like to have attention. You included. If a girl shows interest in you, you feel good about yourself. Your girlfriend will trust you to say/do the honest thing if/when such a scenario occurs. Likewise you must trust your girlfriend to do the same.

Women are brought up in a world of "girls must look pretty." so it's no wonder they, shock horror, want to pretty themselves up from time to time.

And tbh.. so what if a few guys try it on with her? Are you worried she is going to run off with one of them? If so, you've got bigger issues that telling her what/not to wear certain outfits is going to do nothing to help.

jamesblade · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:40

pioneer2000 said:
If she really cared about YOUR feelings, she wouldn't dress in such a way in order to get attention from boys.

If she's in a relationship, why does she need to dress slutty on a night out exactly? Sure, it's because everyone else is and it's fun.... obviously

Rule of life - women LOVE attention. She's dressing like that because that way she'll have all sorts of attention from other guys, irrespective of whether or not she actually does anything. It's pathetic and she should really take into consideration how it would make you feel.

Get real, so many asumptions in that it reads like a piece of propaganda :confused:

Women are geneticaly programmed to "get attention" it doesn't mean she's unfaithfull or being "slutty" by dressing up on a night out.

And i'm amazed that you have the power to get inside her mind and know that she's out to consciously get attention from lads on this night out. You best be carefull or the goverment will kidnap you, lock you up in some secret bunker and do exsperiments on you to learn your super power :rolleyes:

If he has no past reason not to trust her, then let her have a good night out with her friends irespective of wether they are dressed in armour or Burlesque gear.

Its not about her it's about the OPs own insecurities, he needs to learn not to let them rule his life and by connection his Girlfriends.

If he finds out she was unfaithfull then get rid, If she feels he's emotionaly restricting her then she'll eventualy get rid.

Thats life, live with it..

BennyC · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:42

mrk1@1 said:
if she is going to cheat whether on purpose or because she can't control herself on a night out, then she is going to do this sooner or later. may as well be sooner imo,

best thing you can do is trust her, let her go and enjoy herself, if she messes up, you can leave her and move on and find someone who can control themselves. this won't be the only time she gets to go out.

Well said.

Wouldn't worry about it. You can't be there every minute of every day to stop another man touching her.

You're the one she's coming home to to bury her face in your lap so what does it matter if other men dribble over her on a night out?

Spend the evening with the lads and enjoy yourself rather than sulking at home. Tell them to hit you in the balls if you mention her name.

pioneer2000 · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:43

He should probably worry that she does a bit of the pork swording and then comes back home for seconds passing on whatever diseases she's picked up along the way. It's ok though, because he trusts her.

Yes, everyone likes attention, but women go about it in a ridiculous fashion... dressing like a **** and parading around (and then pretending they don't like the attention they get. It's pathetic behaviour!)

RoboCod · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:47

pioneer2000 said:
If she really cared about YOUR feelings, she wouldn't dress in such a way in order to get attention from boys.

If she's in a relationship, why does she need to dress slutty on a night out exactly? Sure, it's because everyone else is and it's fun.... obviously

Rule of life - women LOVE attention. She's dressing like that because that way she'll have all sorts of attention from other guys, irrespective of whether or not she actually does anything. It's pathetic and she should really take into consideration how it would make you feel.

brightside229 said:
Well why do women go out in dresses outfits etc like these? one reason... for attention from the oposite sex, and if they go just because they are being forced to by friends, they will still get this attention all night, slimey men all over my girlfriend all night long, and that thought a lone is enough to make me not want her to go, am i not making sense at all here?

I would in no way go out on a night out dressing like this to impress other girls while i was in a relationship, why should she, just because she is female?!

I guess part of the fun of the night is the attention they are getting which is why women do this...

[FnG]magnolia;20006249 said:
These comments say far, far more about you as people than they do about the women you think you're passing judgement on.

Magnolia took the words right out of my mouth, these assumptions are also rather quite incorrect. Women dressing up to just attract men is narrow minded BS. Sure, some women are like that but the OP is disrespecting his GF if he thinks she is the same.

OP you need to get a grip. Man up you massive phlange!

pioneer2000 · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:47

jamesblade said:
Women are geneticaly programmed to "get attention" it doesn't mean she's unfaithfull or being "slutty" by dressing up on a night out.

Seriously. You actually believe it's a genetic? It's in our nature to club each other to death but the vast majority of us manage to control our primal urges.

You probably believe it when fat people say it's genetic.

[FnG]magnolia · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:48

pioneer2000 said:
He should probably worry that she does a bit of the pork swording and then comes back home for seconds passing on whatever diseases she's picked up along the way. It's ok though, because he trusts her.

Yes, everyone likes attention, but women go about it in a ridiculous fashion... dressing like a **** and parading around (and then pretending they don't like the attention they get. It's pathetic behaviour!)

Seriously, you're starting to sound dangerously creepy right now. I'm not joking.

Show me on this doll where he touched you.

RoboCod · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:48

pioneer2000 said:
He should probably worry that she does a bit of the pork swording and then comes back home for seconds passing on whatever diseases she's picked up along the way. It's ok though, because he trusts her.

Yes, everyone likes attention, but women go about it in a ridiculous fashion... dressing like a **** and parading around (and then pretending they don't like the attention they get. It's pathetic behaviour!)

And that is a pathetic comment.

pioneer2000 · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:49

Captain Planet said:
Women dressing up to just attract men is narrow minded BS. Sure, some women are like that but the OP is disrespecting his GF if he thinks she is the same.

Dressing up, make-up etc isn't the point. It's dressing in nearly-not-there shorts, or having breasts and bum hanging out. What other reason can a woman have to do that?

If she respected him, she wouldn't do it.

[FnG]magnolia · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:52

pioneer2000 said:
Dressing up, make-up etc isn't the point. It's dressing in nearly-not-there shorts, or having breasts and bum hanging out. What other reason can a woman have to do that?

If she respected him, she wouldn't do it.

When did she leave you?

GodMac · 6 Sep 2011 at 13:53

Do what I did, go out and nail as many birds as you can.......if she don't respect the fact you don't approve of her going then she's only going for one reason! You've probably got a small wanger and she needs pleasuring.

I've got two birds on the go and my missus don't know. If I found out she'd been up to it then so what! i'm not going to wait till she gets to her 60's to turn round and say "You know that night I went out with the chav's? Well I got roasted several times and our eldest son Tarquin might not be yours....1 in 10 chance"

Not the situation to be in dude.....go out and sow your oats before she does!