Serious question, because it's not clear, but are you under the age of 17 and still being affected by your hormones?
Because if you are, then fine, you JUST get away with acting like an entitled brat, but learn from your mistakes. Otherwise, gawd, you've got some growing up to do. @Roland Butter sums it up well - being social in situations that you're not comfortable in to support the people that you love that are really suffering is one of them.
I consider myself to be really empathetic towards the feelings of others and find it easy to put myself in their shoes, but honestly, you ask for advice on "what would you have done in this situation" but it's never a situation I would have been in.
Never have I been in a situation where I've "not talked to someone" for anything other than a mutual disrespect for one another (i.e. I enjoy not talking to them as much as they'd enjoy not talking to me) but did it ever cross your mind that they had other things on their mind than making you feel comfortable and welcome? Hard truth, but it's not always about you.
Because if you are, then fine, you JUST get away with acting like an entitled brat, but learn from your mistakes. Otherwise, gawd, you've got some growing up to do. @Roland Butter sums it up well - being social in situations that you're not comfortable in to support the people that you love that are really suffering is one of them.
I consider myself to be really empathetic towards the feelings of others and find it easy to put myself in their shoes, but honestly, you ask for advice on "what would you have done in this situation" but it's never a situation I would have been in.
Never have I been in a situation where I've "not talked to someone" for anything other than a mutual disrespect for one another (i.e. I enjoy not talking to them as much as they'd enjoy not talking to me) but did it ever cross your mind that they had other things on their mind than making you feel comfortable and welcome? Hard truth, but it's not always about you.