Soldato
Are you part of a union? If so they wont be able to help because of the Tory union bills.
Joking aside if you are part of a union get them in.
I wouldn't have said a thing tbh and said if there is an issue i want it in the presence of HR where it can be recorded and I want the circumstances. I am quite sure under the ERA96 they have to tell you the basics of the complaint/grievance eg the grievance is specifically X.
I'm no lawyer (thank god) but I would bet my bottom dollar negativity I not an enforceable grievance.
In my experience, Union help was completely pointless - when I had my first bogus grievance, the Unite guy told me "just do what they ask...". I had joined as my manager had told me to stop asking questions, and just accept it. And HR... they ignored my emails for help on the matter; it left no one, hence me joining Unite.
After my first call to ACAS, I received more help and information than x months membership with Unite.
Just my experience of course.