I've tried just about every distro this weekend, ended up back on ubuntu after having some problems with some, though I do like xubuntu.
Theme is Orta, gradient removed on panel:
Code:
sudo add-apt-repository ppa:nikount/orta-desktop
sudo apt-get update
sudo apt-get install orta-theme orta-emerald-decorators
Icons are Faenza *edit* now using Faenza variants (see deviantart):
Original Faneza below:
Code:
sudo add-apt-repository ppa:tiheum/equinox
sudo apt-get update && sudo apt-get install faenza-icon-theme
Wallpaper is Gnome 3 stripes, slightly modified to remove inch thick stripe on right hand side.
Dock is of course docky