I did the right thing, didn't I?

CChrisca said:
You really need someone to tell you that you did the right thing when you dropped him because he was just using you for sex????? :rolleyes:
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And to help me get my stuff back, I am only 16, I don't really know how relationships work :rolleyes: to you to
 
megzy said:
We did kind of connect but not very well, he kind of looked down his nose at me. :(
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:D That because your shorter than he is :D sorry illicit image popped into my head.......you did the right thing in dumping him.

99% of guys are only after one thing .....to start with, I believe that lust comes first in a relationship then love. If your lucky they both work out.
 
singist said:
Write off the "stuff" and get on with YOUR life.

If you worry about the "stuff" it will give you all sorts of excuses to get in touch/have a go etc .............. let it go and move on.

Surely you have learnt by now that ALL men are after one thing? ..... it's just that some have "it" as the highest priority and for others "it" is farther down the list of things.

You are a good looking girl; you'll have lots of chances to find someone who's more suited to what you want/need; in the meantime, go out and enjoy your life WITHOUT men.


Yeah, you seem to have done the right thing.
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ALL the proper things said right there.

Megster - forget about the clothes. They've probably been burnt by now anyway. Move on!
 
megzy said:
Umm also is 24 to old for a 16 year old? :p
Don't ask!
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Im 24 and I wouldnt even consider having a 16 year old girlfriend. No offence, but I would prefer someone with more maturity.
I went out with a 19 year old and that was a pretty big mistake.
 
Raist said:
ALL the proper things said right there.

Megster - forget about the clothes. They've probably been burnt by now anyway. Move on!
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:eek: Not the shoes
:mad: He is so dead if he has burnt my shoes :mad:
 
lesson 1: dont go out with a guy just because he has a car.

Lesson 2: if you do, remember to take your stuff out of his car before you realise that a 19 year old bloke will only want one thing from a 16 year old girl.

:D

not sure why your parents dont want to get involed...i would think i would be more supportive as a dad in that situation

is it because they told you not to hang around with him, but you did anyway, and now they are saying "told you so"? (i hated when mine did that to me)

do i actually have a point?

apparently not :D
 
The_TailGunner said:
lesson 1: dont go out with a guy just because he has a car.

Lesson 2: if you do, remember to take your stuff out of his car before you realise that a 19 year old bloke will only want one thing from a 16 year old girl.

:D

not sure why your parents dont want to get involed...i would think i would be more supportive as a dad in that situation

is it because they told you not to hang around with him, but you did anyway, and now they are saying "told you so"? (i hated when mine did that to me)

do i actually have a point?

apparently not :D
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1) I didn't, he only passed his car test 3 weeks after we got together.
2) Thought he was different, he was nice to me the first couple of weeks.
3) Parents love him.
4) Yes you did, but not anymore :p
 
The girl i posted about from like 2 years ago still has the jumper i left with her, tbh it's not worth the hassle, you can always buy new stuff.
 
He was only using you for one thing? Heh, well isn't that what ultimately every relationship is about?

I mean, at the end of the day that's all it boils down to - satisfying your natural instinct to reproduce.

All of this 'love' and 'caring' for people, it's all just a creation of your subconscious to help ensure the continuation of the human race.
 
megzy said:
1) I didn't, he only passed his car test 3 weeks after we got together.
2) Thought he was different, he was nice to me the first couple of weeks.
3) Parents love him.
4) Yes you did, but not anymore :p
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1) bah
2) well, he would be, wouldnt he....
3) shouldnt they love you?
4) *sigh* story of my life

:D
 
panthro said:
Im 24 and I wouldnt even consider having a 16 year old girlfriend. No offence, but I would prefer someone with more maturity.
I went out with a 19 year old and that was a pretty big mistake.
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And a steady, decent income, I made the mistake of trying to carry all the costs of a relationship with a younger women.

Now I have a lovely lady 1 month older than me who is going to be raking in the dosh when she get's her accountancy qualification at the end of next year :D
 
MiGSY said:
He was only using you for one thing? Heh, well isn't that what ultimately every relationship is about?

I mean, at the end of the day that's all it boils down to - satisfying your natural instinct to reproduce.

All of this 'love' and 'caring' for people, it's all just a creation of your subconscious to help ensure the continuation of the human race.
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I don't plan have to have children, neither does my gf.

Having someone to share your experiences with is awesome, and the sex on tap thing kinda rocks too ;)
 
megzy said:
Umm also is 24 to old for a 16 year old? :p
Don't ask!
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I met my g/f when I was 29 she was 17 - still together now (2 years on) - its all good. It really does depend on the individuals level of maturity and trusting each other.
 
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