No its not trolling its called common sense. I would laugh at a child who was trying to give me life advice because at the end of the day a child is not going to have much experience. Experience generates opinions and attitudes generate from my experience. Megzy is seeking advice based off her experience and situation, from peerages here. Whether she seeks to listen or apply the advice given is soley up to her, the fact she has recognised that there is a problem is part of her learning from the situation.
Thus age has a lot to do with this thread. Also accusing one of trolling is trolling in itself