[TW]Fox;16015292 said:
He didnt buy it not realising that some people think its a queers car.
I know, amazing! He knew and he still did it! Which is what has me befuddled but may not have the next guy befuddled. Such is the rich tapestry of life.
[TW]Fox;16015292 said:
I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall here, but hey..
Firstly my first reference to you in this thread was a jovial swipe at the irony of your comment (ie come on, you can hardly comment about being all manly when driving when you've got a Golf hatch, it would be like me criticising a car for having 4 doors and a boot rather than being a Coupe), rather than pointing out HOW DARE ANYONE THINK THE CAR CAMP. It was of course only after you continued to hammer the point that the Mini is gay home that the thread went that way.
I seem to be the one talking to a brick wall, as this is the third time that I've tried to point out to you the difference between 'not manly' and 'actually quite camp'.
[TW]Fox;16015292 said:
You might disagree - thats the beauty of opinions - but I personally beleive that commenting on a cars relative merits is a bit different to focusing purely on what it says about the driver.
But what it says about the driver still counts. That in itself is a large chunk of the basis of Mini's marketing campaign, it bemuses me how you can you say it's not important. Do you see Mini adverts everywhere saying 'handles great, corners like a kart, has x suspension type and y chassis features' - no, you see them creating adverts that appeal to a particular demographic and type of character based almost exclusively on non-technical factors. Yet according to you, what a car says about the driver is practically irrelevant once they've purchased it.
[TW]Fox;16015292 said:
We are in a forum about cars and driving and you've actually told us nothing about what you think about the actual car and how it drives despite many, many posts in this thread. Do you not find that a little odd?
Well I literally typed out a paragraph about how I vastly prefer the handling, grip, and neutrality under cornering of my car compared to the Mini, but deleted it as I thought it would just cause another line of debate about Golf vs. Mini.
[TW]Fox;16015292 said:
We'd probably not be having this discussion in quite this way had you instead said how much you hated the ride quality, or how you personally found the steering lifeless, or how you hated the way it looked (Without making the link to the owners sexuality - thats the crucial bit).
If it was only me I might think I was being unreasonable, but it seems to be a commonly held perception. Would you be happy owning a car that the majority of people thought was for girls, no matter how great the handling?
[TW]Fox;16015292 said:
This is not true though, is it?
Consider this example - I had a choice of colours for the monitor I use at home. If it was only available in pink, I would not have purchased it. I dont like pink. This cannot possibly be because of what others would think given that nobody else is going to see a monitor in my study.
Therefore it is not the case to say if somebody who claims not to care about image would reject a pink car, they must therefore care about image.
Nein. NEIN NEIN NEIN!! You wouldn't like a pink monitor because you have been brought up in a society where pink is for girls and blue is for boys. In Victorian times, pink was a boy's colour and you would probably have had pink underwear. Hence your like or dislike of a colour is all about cultural conditioning, which is derived from other people's perceptions, not about your inherent like or dislike of a certain colour.
What's amazed me most in all of this is your sudden righteous indignation at the OP being panned for buying a girl's car! Without having gone back to look for specific examples, I'm fairly certain that you've previously rubbished purchasing decisions based on non-technical factors, for example 'Oh noes people will think you're a chav'.
From reading further up I understand that I'm gay because I drive a Mini.
Do you want to tell my girlfriend or shall I? She'll be devastated, she wanted kids and everything.
Well now that you're no longer a man you can give her my number if you like and I can provide

. I repeat, I am not saying you're gay because you're driving a Mini, I'm saying are you not worried that people will think you're gay or a hairdresser? I'm also saying it hardly feels solid inside, which was one of your criteria. It feels like one of those electric cars that kids drive round their parents' garden.