As said be carful what you want it might be your turn one time because you dont agree with something. But yeah i did have have replies but people only say what they wanted. But yeah get back on topic.
And I would hope that If I was so misguided as to believe something equally as foolish as NATO being somehow responsible for Russian Aggression against Ukraine, I would really like to be called out on it too.
At least then I could re-evaluate my position and possibly reconsider, rather than double-down on the suggestion, or worse try to play "victim" and make it about them rather than what they said - which is what people have been addressing.