This was reported by Anandtech last week when they announced their quarterly results:
"As for 10 nm ramp in general, Intel is only talking about producing its relatively small Ice Lake-U processors in volumes this year, which is the company’s typical way of ramping up a new node. When it comes to their larger Ice Lake-SP server parts, Intel expects to launch those 10 nm Xeon products in 2020. The company says that its Ice Lake-SP CPUs will be available in less than 12 months after its Ice Lake-U products hit the market. In fact, Intel has even advised investors to expect 10 nm Xeons to arrive “rather sooner than later” in 2020, which would imply something earlier than Q4'2020."
Speculation suggests that desktop parts are still a problem as they require high clock speeds and process performance which might well both still be lacking.
For server parts ultimate clock speed is not usually so important and as others have stated it's an area where AMD can do more damage to Intel so they will prioritise that.
The fact that there was no official mention of 10nm desktop parts speaks volumes.
The big question is how soon will 7nm come and how will Intel prioritise that?
If they prioritise server first and laptop second then maybe that is why desktop will still only get 10nm even as late as 2020/21.
Could we even see Server @7nm before desktop @10nm!
That might partly depend on the strength of their designs and how they will compete with AMD @7nm & 5nm.
Some of the staff at Intel are certainly having to sweat a lot more than they did in the decade prior to Zen launching.
Intel seem to be focusing on creating/reworking designs that can be relatively quickly moved from 14->10->7nm which suggests they don't intend to sit on the 10nm node long and also has held things up a little but potentially pays off in the longer term. They also seem to have switched focus on a number of fabs to prepare them for 7nm instead of 10nm though not confirmed on all of them some of the equipment/work known to be going in doesn't make sense for 10nm - neither does the amount of money being thrown at some of the sites unless they were basically starting again from scratch on 10nm.
What actually happens might be another story but from what I can find out seems the most likely path is that 10nm will mostly be used for lower end products and transition to chipset production, etc. some of which is currently still on 22nm and/or has been moved back to 22nm due to 14nm shortages.
As an aside Intel's 14nm is actually some way from being tapped out performance wise - I'm not sure at what stage it is now but the last I heard the then latest incarnation was still missing optimisation (kind of like TSMC's 16FF to 12FF) that could give around 15-16% higher clock speeds as it hadn't been deemed worth the effort with a supposed imminent move to 10nm.
EDIT: This is very much an external perspective and might be wrong but from talking to people who deal with Intel professionally I very much get the impression that there are a lot of people at Intel that just tell people what they think they want to hear to get them to go away and they are increasingly put off working with them due to a seeming never ending loop of different managers each disconnected from the others when dealing with anything.