You have ADHD, I talked about the part time college course I am doing; or is that actually weird and no one told me. I did ask for no jack@$$e$, we all have to start somewhere and since you are here in a thread for internet dating; you cannot be all that clued up.
I do go on about weights but the benefit of the way I live my life is that I do not have to put up with people such as yourself who think nothing of pooh-poohing other people's lives; only on the internet do I hear of such intolerant people.
Are you the type that is so critical of others that even when u meet a reasonable compatible partner you just tend to think of them as a sum of their flaws consequently you search the internets after searching the local watering holes for the perfect flawless partner.
Some of us just need to get the ball rolling.
Oh and having a good physique does get you noticed trust me.