Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I'm definitely a marriage and kids kind of girl. Ideally it would be great for that to happen before I'm 30 but I know you can't plan these things!
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Bet that's scared half of them off :D
 
I just signed up to a site over here, well it's kind of a social networking site + dating. One thing that made me think was that there was a dropdown box that asked how big your wang is, I was a bit :confused:

I left it blank as my thoughts are that I don't want to come across as too ungentlemanly and discretion is sometimes a good thing, I'm also not sure I want to attract the type of girl that chooses dates based on that criteria. I'm by no means a prude and wouldn't have a problem with it but just thought it's not the image I want to put across. What are your thoughts?
 
Col_M said:
I just signed up to a site over here, well it's kind of a social networking site + dating. One thing that made me think was that there was a dropdown box that asked how big your wang is, I was a bit :confused:

I left it blank as my thoughts are that I don't want to come across as too ungentlemanly and discretion is sometimes a good thing, I'm also not sure I want to attract the type of girl that chooses dates based on that criteria. I'm by no means a prude and wouldn't have a problem with it but just thought it's not the image I want to put across. What are your thoughts?
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makes me wonder if there is inversely a female equivalent "what fruit or veg can your vagina hold" :confused:
and frankly, if it's asking these sorts of question, then the site's clientelle are most likely going to be a little less....wholesome I'd have thought :p
 
secretspy said:
hmm i wondered that. how can I make it seem less serious?

Col - er that is a bit odd to say the least :confused:
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not entirely sure, paints you in a very positive light, if somewhat boring, and we all know you're not :p for you've seen Skully's wiener on webcam... though I wouldn't suggest putting that in your profile :D
 
It is a bit odd yeah. I'm leaving it blank and will just see what happens, I may even have a look through some guy's profiles too to see what the norm is with regards to filling it out.

You can also see who has been looking at your profile which is handy, some are "giggity" and some are "eek" :p
 
mac1st3 said:
not entirely sure, paints you in a very positive light, if somewhat boring, and we all know you're not :p for you've seen Skully's wiener on webcam... though I wouldn't suggest putting that in your profile :D
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haha yeah i think I'll leave that out

hmm i'll have a think and see if I can get my friend to give me tips as he knows me quite well.

What i find really odd about some guys I've met is they say they're not ready for a relationship at the moment or are not in the right frame of mind, yet they carry on looking for people on match etc and imply they are looking for one.

I mean whats all that about? :confused: personally if you're honestly not ready for a relationship, whats the point in looking because in the end it's the other person who get's hurt.

And when they say this to me then come up under my matches, well, just shows what utter BS they talk and makes me even more sure that I've made the right decision in walking away rather then hanging about for them to decide when they are ready (which is what some have said they wanted)

well just gone through 35 pages of "possibles" but majority don't seem like my type at all. :(
 
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secretspy said:
haha yeah i think I'll leave that out

hmm i'll have a think and see if I can get my friend to give me tips as he knows me quite well.

What i find really odd about some guys I've met is they say they're not ready for a relationship at the moment or are not in the right frame of mind, yet they carry on looking for people on match etc and imply they are looking for one.

I mean whats all that about? :confused: personally if you're honestly not ready for a relationship, whats the point in looking because in the end it's the other person who get's hurt.

And when they say this to me then come up under my matches, well, just shows what utter BS they talk and makes me even more sure that I've made the right decision in walking away rather then hanging about for them to decide when they are ready (which is what some have said they wanted)

well just gone through 35 pages of "possibles" but majority don't seem like my type at all. :(
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yea, it's a bit stupid, some think they want a relationship, but just want someone they can hang around with without the commitment, or just the obvious :/ though to be fair, I've used the "not after a relationship/don't know what I want" excuse once with one girl, because she was a major nut and wanted to marry after 2 months >.< not that I have commitment issues or anything, but that just rang all sorts of alarm bells in my head lol

but It's majorly depressing trawling through pages and pages of opening phrases like "I'm a bit of a nutter" or "I'm so bad at these things" lol, shows no originality/thought gone into it. and when you've exhausted your area, you start expanding your search, drop some requirements that you "might be able to deal with" like smokers lol

it's all so very drole at times
 
well I'm not that desperate to get married, at least a couple of years before considering that lol.

But I don't think it's fair for guys to tell girls they aren't ready for a relationship because when the girl then finds out it's a lie, it's rather hurtful

(my ex did it to me :()

as for dropping requirements, smoking is definitely not one i will drop erlack! my ex smoked, it wasn't nice!

I sometimes wonder if my ex fiance and I would have got back together if he hadn't reacted the way he did after we split. He was the only guy who made me feel loved, with him I knew he cared.
 
I've learned to go in to these dates incredibly open minded now, especially PoF ones... my god, some weird women on there
 
secretspy said:
well I'm not that desperate to get married, at least a couple of years before considering that lol.

But I don't think it's fair for guys to tell girls they aren't ready for a relationship because when the girl then finds out it's a lie, it's rather hurtful

(my ex did it to me :()

as for dropping requirements, smoking is definitely not one i will drop erlack! my ex smoked, it wasn't nice!

I sometimes wonder if my ex fiance and I would have got back together if he hadn't reacted the way he did after we split. He was the only guy who made me feel loved, with him I knew he cared.
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yea, I've got plenty of time, though not if my parents have anything to do with it, they've already moaned about me not lined up to produce any young for the forseeable future >.<

after I told me ex I wasn't up for a relationship, she just jumped on the next unwitting victim and moved in with him after 3 weeks lol dodged a massive bullet there, but still on good terms

I too haven't gotten desperate enough to drop my standards, unless they're an amazing person to the point it would be something so minor I could overlook, but I'd rather no smokers lol, so far not had any, so not sure whether the comparison to licking an ashtray is accurate or not

and don't worry about it, I often wonder how things would have worked out if I'd stayed with my ex fiancé, and that was 4 years ago, though we are still very close, which confuses plenty of people lol
 
secretspy said:
Ok boys I'm back on match after not being on there for a couple of months...

I've tweaked my profile a little so was after anyone's opinion on if it sounds ok, if the pics are good enough etc?

(i'll probably regret this but no one else I can ask! lol)

http://uk.match.com/profile/showprofile.aspx?ortp=1&TP=U&uid=cTxdurXt1sQr9uNBDn17Iw==&lid=21

Please be gentle !:D
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OMG.... its a shock to read such a good profile, that actually felt somthing went into it.... (as said above) SOLD ;)
 
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