Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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PiKe said:
Are any of them intellectually stimulating though?
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Yeah definitely. I wouldn't be talking to them else.

Interestingly the hottest girl by far that I'm speaking to (not pictured) has an amazing background and is the most cultured person I know, yet speaking to is the dullest.

She's Jewish, was born in Moscow, moved to Munich when she was 8 due to anti-Semitism and now lives in Bristol for university and speaks five languages fluently. She got poached by one of the biggest modelling agencies in the world while in Munich (she's 5ft 9 and... well, looks Russian/Jewish) and travelled to LA/NY/London/Paris for work.

But for someone reason she just can't hold or create a conversation, even on MSN :(.
 
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some people are like that, I'm only talkative in the right company, as I'm comfortable with silence and I'm more of a listener anyway, my last gf moaned like crazy that I didn't talk enough, then shut up when I told her I was comfortable with her not to need to fill every minute with chatter >.< bless her, she tried to talk enough for the both of us hehe
 
Oh and don't ever try and impress a girl by speaking languages you don't know. Here's some excerpts from convos with the Russian Jew...

Russ: guten tag
Girl: ah, hallo.
Russ: wie geht es ihnen?
Girl: sehr uber, danke.
Russ: gut :)
Girl: wie gehts, englisch mann?
Russ: mmm, es geht
Girl: verdammt habe ich hehe. nicht viel, was haben Sie getan?
Russ: lol
Russ: mmm
Girl: :P
Russ: ich hatte meine haar schnieden!
Girl: you lost your hair? .. what lol?
Russ: oh, no, had it cut, lol
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Girl: auf widersehen, englischermann :)
Russ: tehehe
Russ: пока русский язык
Russ: ...is probably totally wrong
Girl: lol, what were you trying to say?
Russ: 'bye Russian!'
Russ: quite simple lol
Russ: what does it say?
Girl: oh, well.. in english it roughly translates as "thus far Russian language" :)
Russ: oh screw it then
Russ: auf wiedersehen Russisch
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Fail :(.
 
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mac1st3 said:
some people are like that, I'm only talkative in the right company, as I'm comfortable with silence and I'm more of a listener anyway, my last gf moaned like crazy that I didn't talk enough, then shut up when I told her I was comfortable with her not to need to fill every minute with chatter >.< bless her, she tried to talk enough for the both of us hehe
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You know it's a good relationship and you are comfortable with each other enough so that you can both stfu and enjoy a moment without jibber jabber :)
 
Knubje said:
You know it's a good relationship and you are comfortable with each other enough so that you can both stfu and enjoy a moment without jibber jabber :)
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damn right :D

but alas, now an ex lol, though I do prefer listening to a nice voice ;)
 
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andyd said:
I’ve have got a friend that sounds very similar to yourself in terms of that she finds it very hard to open up to someone and I have had many conversations with her about this as she seem to get upset about it every now and then. I don’t know if you are the same but she has problems letting go of the past, as she constantly keeps going back and getting hurt but I think the penny has dropped with her now. Then again I can see where your coming from here about being messed about and I guess I think deep down most people would feel the same. However, there are also a fair amount of pickup artists about. I personally think the best way of meeting new people is through friends or out and about with friends, as it’s always worked well for me in the past. :)
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I did have trouble letting go of past but not now, now I see im much better off and would never go back. It probably is better to meet people out and about but if that opportunity doesn't arise to often then I guess the internet is the best option. I Just wish I could find a better site than pof its just the same results/people every time.
 
no there's no ocuk breakup, we hadn't got together

it's a long story

let's just say, i've been a bit impatient about a few things, i haven't had a decent nights sleep for week's so my tiredness is making me not think clearly, making rash decisions, allowing others opinions to guide my choices, feel confused easily.

I'm not going on match again, if FF still wants to get to know me then i still want to get to know him and just him.

in the meantime i need to sort a few things out.
 
Acolyte said:
This little hottie just messaged me, can't believe my luck!

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The best bit is she can actually write decent English and she actually put some thought into her message, there is a god!
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Haha, I've just come across her in the search results.

Do I message her?! :D
 
Yea, I've had a few of those, it's a little risky from what I've seen of it, it finds pretty much, one thing you're both interested in, and then decides you're fated to love each other >.<
 
Russinating said:
Yes, but.... she likes The Dark Knight!!1 We could be soulmates!?

:p:rolleyes:
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that's very true, though does she like it because it's Batman, or because it's Heath Ledger's final film, or because the character of The Joker? only one of these answers is "wrong", but it's got the highest probability >.<
 
ok i'm a little freaked out...

someone has seen my match profile and emailed me

however, the email didn't go through on my match log in. it's to an old hotmail account that isn't even registered on match so i've no idea how they got it?

Unless someone on here is trying to have a laugh? if so its not very funny :(
 
secretspy said:
ok i'm a little freaked out...

someone has seen my match profile and emailed me

however, the email didn't go through on my match log in. it's to an old hotmail account that isn't even registered on match so i've no idea how they got it?

Unless someone on here is trying to have a laugh? if so its not very funny :(
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Post the from email address so we can name 'n shame.

That is, unless you liked the message!

Broken Hope said:
Have you ever given out or used the old hotmail account on here?
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It's in her trust.
 
yeah the email is in my trust but in their message there was no mention of seeing my profile on ocuk, just seeing it on match :confused: the other strange thing is instead of saying the from name as "john doe" or whatever it was _ _
 
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