Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Well we were getting on well ... he's just told me he's religouse and catholic, im not at all infact im an atheist. Also he just came out and asked me something which has creeped me out a little because I feel like its not something you'd just ask someone you haven't been talking to for that long

haha great sign there, what did he ask you? you needn't tell us the answer, but the question is intriguing now ;)

but if he's devoutly religious, that might be an issue if you've got fairly strong athiest beliefs/non-beliefs hehe
 
haha great sign there, what did he ask you? you needn't tell us the answer, but the question is intriguing now ;)

but if he's devoutly religious, that might be an issue if you've got fairly strong athiest beliefs/non-beliefs hehe

Questions of a sexual nature like do I like it/fantasise about it and have I ever been with women ... im starting to feel a little creeped out. I think he want's to meet up at some point
 
Questions of a sexual nature like do I like it/fantasise about it and have I ever been with women ... im starting to feel a little creeped out. I think he want's to meet up at some point

sounds...classy >.< how long you been talking?

I could maybe understand it if it's been a fair time, but if it's out of the blue and not a longstanding conversation...it's a little creepy lol
 
Questions of a sexual nature like do I like it/fantasise about it and have I ever been with women ... im starting to feel a little creeped out. I think he want's to meet up at some point

Sorry to butt in, but thats just down right creepy, and i'd stop talking to him now.
 
Questions of a sexual nature like do I like it/fantasise about it and have I ever been with women ... im starting to feel a little creeped out. I think he want's to meet up at some point

You cant seriously be thinking this guy is anything close to normal.

Delete.. block is your best defence there..

Sounds like one sick puppy to me.
 
sounds...classy >.< how long you been talking?

I could maybe understand it if it's been a fair time, but if it's out of the blue and not a longstanding conversation...it's a little creepy lol

Ive only been talking to him since yesterday ... so yeah that's why im creeped out, I just made up some excuse about having to go. I don't think I should persue it any further because im quite put off now.
 
Ive only been talking to him since yesterday ... so yeah that's why im creeped out, I just made up some excuse about having to go. I don't think I should persue it any further because im quite put off now.

run, you'll easily be faster than him >.>

definitely a freak of the highest calibre
 
Im just scared he's going to keep stalking me now ... cos i can block/delete him off pof but before he started getting all creepy he wanted to exchange numbers, so thought it can't hurt and thats when the weirdness started creepy inappropriate txtds and even when I wasn't replying he hasn't stopped txtdin. Only now when I made an excuse up
 
I just feel like he's one of these that will keep txtding when they dont get a response and after a bit start getting annoyed. I have come across them before
 
Just ignore him if you dont want to change your number, he'll get fed up in the end, and in future dont give your number out so easily, I wouldnt give someone I only got chatting to 24 hours earlier my number that quickly.
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Im just scared he's going to keep stalking me now ... cos i can block/delete him off pof but before he started getting all creepy he wanted to exchange numbers, so thought it can't hurt and thats when the weirdness started creepy inappropriate txtds and even when I wasn't replying he hasn't stopped txtdin. Only now when I made an excuse up

This is the reason I dont give my number out till I've spoken to someone for a week or so, so I can weed out the complete nutjobs!

It might be worth calling your mobile network provider and getting the number blocked from texts/calls. Yes he can simply use another number, but by the time he's worked out you've blocked him he hopefully would have given up and moved onto someone else!
 
This is the reason I dont give my number out till I've spoken to someone for a week or so, so I can weed out the complete nutjobs!

It might be worth calling your mobile network provider and getting the number blocked from texts/calls. Yes he can simply use another number, but by the time he's worked out you've blocked him he hopefully would have given up and moved onto someone else!

Should I not wait to see if he just goes away .. I said i'd talk to him later so maybe if I don't txtd him he will just get the message and go away.
 
Should I not wait to see if he just goes away .. I said i'd talk to him later so maybe if I don't txtd him he will just get the message and go away.

Yeah I'd give him till over the weekend to cool down a bit, but if on Monday, after you not replying at all. He's still calling/texting and you've clearly said your not interested and the guy can't get the hint, then its the time to block his number!
 
I would definitely tell him you're uncomfortable, else he'll not get the message, lay it out VERY clearly and state you aren't comfortable talking to him anymore and say goodbye
 
No problem, you seem like the nice type :)

But you need to do things for you, forget the guys feelings you've only known for 24hours, if he's starting to be creepy!

Yeah thanks, your right I should .. maybe thats my problem im nice so it makes it easy for guys like that to try and take advantage.
 
Yeah thanks, your right I should .. maybe thats my problem im nice so it makes it easy for guys like that to try and take advantage.

Same here. Just remember to take a more relaxed approach for the first few days at least, so you can then get a feel for what type of person your speaking to.

Oh and make sure you keep the "block" button at arms reach! :D
 
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