Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Hey,

Well I just came back from a date. And omg - she's stunning. Very different to her picture! Her english isn't amazing, but she definitely makes up for it! Shame she isn't in the country for that long.
 
Oh, and actually about dating.

I took my one and her kids to the zoo today. Luckily one of the kids (the only one old enough to really know whats going on) loves me. Having to carry her about all day was hard work though! Also, she called me daddy which was quite strange, she knows full well who her dad is!

Problem though, after being the ultimate father figure, paying for the whole day out and so on, my lady friend still wont put out. There is only so much kissing I can do before it becomes boring!

We some how got onto the subject in text, she said she doesn't want to sleep with me yet because she wants to see where we go before she does it as it only complicates things!

How do I tell her that unless she puts out soon, I'm gonna slip something in her drink?

I live putting my life right out here on OcUK!
 
I'm sure your just putting on a bit of an act here and that you don't need reminded that she is thinking of her kids before you and the consequences of taking the thing you two have further.

However, if all you want is a quick **** I would suggest looking elsewhere.

I assume this based on your previous post/s and you seem like a nice enough guy in the situation your in.
 
Raymond Lin said:
Sounds like she will put out, just a matter of time, and if you like her then stick with it, and if you are only using POF for sex then move on and don't waste her time either. It seems obvious that she is after something more.
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I'm defo not only using it for sex, I have a **** buddy if I really wanted, she looks a bit like a dude though.

I do want commitment but I also want sex!
 
Damonic said:
I'm sure your just putting on a bit of an act here and that you don't need reminded that she is thinking of her kids before you and the consequences of taking the thing you two have further.

However, if all you want is a quick **** I would suggest looking elsewhere.

I assume this based on your previous post/s and you seem like a nice enough guy in the situation your in.
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I am a nice guy, the Zoo isn't cheap, especially when you have a 3rd old in the giftshop!
 
Anewbe4u said:
I'm defo not only using it for sex, I have a **** buddy if I really wanted, she looks a bit like a dude though.

I do want commitment but I also want sex!
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Sounds to me like you got the kids involved FAR too soon in my opinion.

I am a single Dad and have been on the dating scene for the last couple of years since splitting with his mother but no way would I introduce him to any of the people I date unless I knew it was going somewhere serious.

Just my opinion of course but children are very sensitive and it sounds like you are putting your penis first.
 
Anewbe4u said:
I took my one and her kids to the zoo today. Luckily one of the kids (the only one old enough to really know whats going on) loves me. Having to carry her about all day was hard work though! Also, she called me daddy which was quite strange, she knows full well who her dad is!

Problem though, after being the ultimate father figure, paying for the whole day out and so on, my lady friend still wont put out. There is only so much kissing I can do before it becomes boring!

We some how got onto the subject in text, she said she doesn't want to sleep with me yet because she wants to see where we go before she does it as it only complicates things!

How do I tell her that unless she puts out soon, I'm gonna slip something in her drink?

I live putting my life right out here on OcUK!
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You're already going out to the zoo with the KIDS... and carrying them about all day? And having them call you daddy? Sorry mate but that's seriously ****ed up. I would get out of there quick and find another girl before you get in too deep and it leads nowhere.It's obvious she's looking for a father for her children and by the looks of it she's not willing to do what a normal single mother would do when meeting a new man and leave the kids out of it until she's sussed you out enough to trust you around her children and see what you're all about.

It's a bit weird imo, i'd be out of there like a shot... but now i'm doubting your sense of normality so I think it would go either way. You obviously want a shag, so find a single girl who can give you one without it leading to these sort of complications.
 
I can see her turning into a bunny boiler if you jack her in because she wont put out.

but in reality that is a lame excuse for leaving her. (well for a while anyway ;) )
 
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