Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I arranged to meet a girl I'd been talking too for a couple of days on PoF, she lived locally so I didnt think there was anything to lose

So we met up, went for a meal, wasnt really feeling the attraction and I wasn't sure I liked the personality

Anyway after the meal, on my way home I got a text message saying "Thanks for tonight, really enjoyed it, I love you". I thought it was a joke or mistake so ignored it and avoided any awkwardness

But over the next few days all her messages ended like that. Anyway, a mistake I know but I agreed to meet her again and go back to her place for the evening, got there, she came on a bit fast all over me, then all of a sudden rolled over and told me "I think you should go"

I left and then she text me asking me to leave her alone lol, still not sure what happened but I'm hardly devestated :p

She had a heart of gold bless her, but she just wasnt for me, she just seemed to have a few too many issues
 
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Re done my profile.. will see what it nets :D

Probably being far too serious :-/ Meh.

Trying in Vain to fight my way through the hoards of players, married folk, fake profiles and people just here to mess you about.
A bit sick of it to be brutally honest.

Rant over, I'll tell you about me now.

Well I'm a pretty straightforward guy, what you see is what you get, I'm straight talking and pretty direct.
I have a totally chilled and relaxed outlook on life, I'm very spontaneous and love to just take every day as it comes, take it all squarely on the chin.

Having been single now for a while, I don't get out as much as I like, so I feel that I'm stuck in a bit of a vicious circle, it feels very odd going out alone and sometimes awkward. On top of that my circle of friends seem to be quite closed as well, so no one new ever enters the friend arena, or if they do then they bring along their other half. Humbug! so hence why I'm here...
. :/

I'm romantic, not afraid to tell you how I feel, open and honest about everything.
I don't think I have any skeletons hiding away or any major issues that need dealing with. I have no scary ex's about to come round and scratch your eyeballs out.
I'm pretty sensible over all but not afraid to lark about when the opportunity arises, kids seem to love me anyway which is scary as I thought for many a year that I don't really like em, but now most of my family have them I've warmed to the idea LOL (never thought I'd hear myself say THAT!!)
I love the open countryside, nature and sunshine.
I enjoy experiencing new things and I'm really not scared to try anything at least once.
I love travelling and adventures to far away places and want to see more of the world.
I enjoy driving, scuba diving and mountain biking as outdoor sports.
Inside undercover I like movies, cinema DVD's, music, and computers.
I don't drink huge amounts of alcohol, I'm not the type to get drunk every friday night and then try and take on the world.
Oh and I hate football.
I have what you might call a few other boys toys as well to keep me occupied and no I don't mean a blow up doll !!!
I've been brought up to look after myself, so I have great, what you might call, "life skills". I can fix anything you women break and I'm pretty good at DIY as well, whether that be a few shelves in a cupboard, laying a patio, or building a garden shed, I've done it all.
I am your handy Andy. :)

So what I'm ideally looking for and I say "IDEALLY" as loosely as possible because I've had a few mails back telling me "I'm not your type cos I'm size **..... Let me be the judge of that!!! however, a perfect lass would be a slim lady with an open and honest nature, not afraid of their own body or how to use it (I think you catch my drift there). Someone who actually enjoys living and has a great zest for life!

One more thing I'd like to say is REPLY GUARANTEED.
If you can be bothered to write to me then I will show you the courtesy of at least replying back.
There has to be some normal, well balanced women on here somewhere..
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Anewbe4u said:
Oh, and actually about dating.

I took my one and her kids to the zoo today. Luckily one of the kids (the only one old enough to really know whats going on) loves me. Having to carry her about all day was hard work though! Also, she called me daddy which was quite strange, she knows full well who her dad is!

Problem though, after being the ultimate father figure, paying for the whole day out and so on, my lady friend still wont put out. There is only so much kissing I can do before it becomes boring!

We some how got onto the subject in text, she said she doesn't want to sleep with me yet because she wants to see where we go before she does it as it only complicates things!

How do I tell her that unless she puts out soon, I'm gonna slip something in her drink?

I live putting my life right out here on OcUK!
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the reason she is not putting out is maybe because of people like you ? ;)

seriously man, how many dates you had with her ?, not every woman will sleep with you on date number 2 or whatever. and if thats all your worried about then she is right to be cautious of you.

why not get to know her more.. you know, enjoy her company and not just think about sex, it's not the be all and end all in life... and just a part of a lasting relationship. taking it slow can be much more fun than rushing into things.. makes sure you get a spark burning, and hopefully once you have slept together it continues rather than you just thinking 'huh, now time to find someone else to conquer'
 
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Sex early on just complicates things, atleast wait a few weeks before you get to that stage, just say you wanna take things slow, women love it when a bloke says that!.

Either they will do just that and take things slow or they throw themselfs at you cos your so "cute". If you can't be bothered to wait then there most likely not the person for you.
 
Ha there clearly should be some internationally recognised timeline for the whole "sex" thing! :P lol!

That whole thing with the kids is scary tho! DOnt wanna get in too deep too quickly as it can quickly become quite the mess!
 
I spotted some hot girl with good English, 30 mins away though - not sure if it's worthy of a try!

I'd have to make a real profile too, currently just browsing most people are fugly and illiterate!
 
Flukester said:
the reason she is not putting out is maybe because of people like you ? ;)

seriously man, how many dates you had with her ?, not every woman will sleep with you on date number 2 or whatever. and if thats all your worried about then she is right to be cautious of you.

why not get to know her more.. you know, enjoy her company and not just think about sex, it's not the be all and end all in life... and just a part of a lasting relationship. taking it slow can be much more fun than rushing into things.. makes sure you get a spark burning, and hopefully once you have slept together it continues rather than you just thinking 'huh, now time to find someone else to conquer'
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This is still going on?

We've since had sex, it hasn't complicated things and we're pretty happy actually. If she'll have me I'm going to stick around.
 
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