5 messages sent here, 5 replies back, four dates. And I aint no BradPick the women that put an effort into their profile, they'll usually put an effort back into replying.
Hear, hear!
2 years, 1 month and still happier than I have ever been
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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Hear, hear!
2 years, 1 month and still happier than I have ever been
No reply from me if you offer a one liner. I had a few girls message me asking to 'check my profile and write me'. Sure. F off sweetheart. You initiated contact, you had to have checked my profile already and mail ME, not the other way around. Took me about 3 whole nights of trawling through crap to find the first diamond. She was cool, funny, interested in me, smart and put in a real effort into replying and replying to what we were talking about, not just generic excrement that seems to be the norm with lazy people wanting everything done for them.
But I do wonder if I'm just lucky with location too. I live in London and within a 5 mile radius from my house there is about 500+ women available. It triples when I set it to 15 miles. Choice is good
But I do wonder if I'm just lucky with location too. I live in London and within a 5 mile radius from my house there is about 500+ women available. It triples when I set it to 15 miles. Choice is good
But I do wonder if I'm just lucky with location too. I live in London and within a 5 mile radius from my house there is about 500+ women available. It triples when I set it to 15 miles. Choice is good
I live out in the sticks so I not only have to find someone who is interested but they have to be willing to travel a bit too... I saw a stunner on POF yesterday who I think lives down the road from me. I don't know if she has read my email or not but I seem to remember seeing her on there over 6 months ago and she's still active on the site...
Well I've killed my PoF profile.
Friday night I met up with someone on a date after talking for a week and we really hit it off. Was a completely random date, we went for a drive, had some take away then (and I dunno how this happens with me, but it's not the first time) she was sat on my lap on her passenger seat having a massive snuggle. I then went to see her on Sunday and ended up staying over at hers as I'd had 4 hours sleep since the Thursday (heavy weekend!).
Anyway, we're very very similar people. We have been through similar situations and understand each others "issues" very well, which for people like us is very very important. I have a great vibe and a good feeling. Had a few good dates but this one feels different so we're going to see where it goes. To have someone who understands me is very important so I'm looking forward to seeing where it leads
Friday night I met up with someone on a date after talking for a week and we really hit it off. Was a completely random date, we went for a drive, had some take away then (and I dunno how this happens with me, but it's not the first time) she was sat on my lap on her passenger seat having a massive snuggle. I then went to see her on Sunday and ended up staying over at hers as I'd had 4 hours sleep since the Thursday (heavy weekend!).
Anyway, we're very very similar people. We have been through similar situations and understand each others "issues" very well, which for people like us is very very important. I have a great vibe and a good feeling. Had a few good dates but this one feels different so we're going to see where it goes. To have someone who understands me is very important so I'm looking forward to seeing where it leads
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I've been talking to this girl now for a few weeks, really getting on and having a right laugh on facebook!. We planned to go out for a date tomorrow, it was planned since last week it was based on the weather and she was looking forward to it, she even reminded me about it yesterday. But today i heard nothing from her, she was on facebook and never said anything to me! Then i get a text, " got to cancel tomorrow, because i've been called into work as it's short staffed x". Which is really strange because i felt she would cancel out on me and also she doesn't bloody work, she's studying at uni and goes back start of next week.
I really really really hate people that let others down right before an event and then make it up just to get out of it. I'm sure some here will say i'm just reading into things and she is probably telling the truth, but again she doesn't work and if she really wanted to see me she'd say can we rearrange for another day how about saturday e.t.c . Got the picnic food ready for tomorrow and now my plans are shafted
Not happy at all
I really really really hate people that let others down right before an event and then make it up just to get out of it. I'm sure some here will say i'm just reading into things and she is probably telling the truth, but again she doesn't work and if she really wanted to see me she'd say can we rearrange for another day how about saturday e.t.c . Got the picnic food ready for tomorrow and now my plans are shafted
Not happy at all
I've been talking to this girl now for a few weeks, really getting on and having a right laugh on facebook!. We planned to go out for a date tomorrow, it was planned since last week it was based on the weather and she was looking forward to it, she even reminded me about it yesterday. But today i heard nothing from her, she was on facebook and never said anything to me! Then i get a text, " got to cancel tomorrow, because i've been called into work as it's short staffed x". Which is really strange because i felt she would cancel out on me and also she doesn't bloody work, she's studying at uni and goes back start of next week.
I really really really hate people that let others down right before an event and then make it up just to get out of it. I'm sure some here will say i'm just reading into things and she is probably telling the truth, but again she doesn't work and if she really wanted to see me she'd say can we rearrange for another day how about saturday e.t.c . Got the picnic food ready for tomorrow and now my plans are shafted
Not happy at all
Part time?
I really really really hate people that let others down right before an event and then make it up just to get out of it. I'm sure some here will say i'm just reading into things and she is probably telling the truth, but again she doesn't work and if she really wanted to see me she'd say can we rearrange for another day how about saturday e.t.c . Got the picnic food ready for tomorrow and now my plans are shafted
Not happy at all
Your reading too much into this, fact is you have no idea what is going on or what she is thinking and you cannot guess about her actions because you don't know her well enough. She may well be telling fibs about working but it could be to cover up caring for her mothers sick puppy or shes going to the clinic to have her crabs treated, neither of which reflects upon you or her feelings about you.
You kinda need to man up a bit and stop being such a woman about it, it will either work out or it wont but getting moody about it wont help anybody.
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Get a grip man.
Breath.
Breath.
I do Family work on and off yet I wouldn't say I worked.
You might have just got the wrong end of the stick. give her a message and see if she wants to re-schedule?
if you hear nothing from that push it to the darkest corner of you mind.
Also I know how you feel about not being able to trust anyone.
Your right I dont know anything about you, but then I couldn't care less about it either where as you are getting yourself bent out of shape over whats probably nothing. You sound like you have an issue with people and if your going to take it so much to heart perhaps online dating isn't the best avenue for you to meet people?
Sorry, it's just that it's happened so many times to me there have been so many other situations that i cannot discuss here. Yet it happened again! I'm a nice person and i care about everyone around me, but i don't know why this constantly happens to me.
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