Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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My ex girlfriend, the one that sent me straight back on Match/OkCupid got in touch today and mentioned that she's permanently moving to Germany with work, uhm, Tuesday. Not that it matters, or maybe it matters a little, but it still kinda hurts that she didn't tell me sooner or mention anything. Now she wants to meet on Sunday night to say 'goodbye'. Do I tap it one last time or play it cool?
 
I wouldn't even bother meeting her, she clearly doesn't think your close enough to tell about moving to Germany, why should you want to say goodbye.
 
Agreed, why was you the last person that knew about it?

Well we haven't quite been in touch since we broke up. Just the odd 'hey, how are you, bla bla'. But maybe she wanted to spring it on me to see my reaction. Not an eye lit was batted.

I'll go see her to say goodbye and walk away without looking back. We did spend about 18 months together after all.
 
Well we haven't quite been in touch since we broke up. Just the odd 'hey, how are you, bla bla'. But maybe she wanted to spring it on me to see my reaction. Not an eye lit was batted.

I'll go see her to say goodbye and walk away without looking back. We did spend about 18 months together after all.

this is what ex'es do! :) one i dated 2 months ago keeps bringing stuff up on a forum i am active and she is too.. she says things like "so many guys hit on me everyday hhehehe" or "im feeling sooo good today its unbelievable"

the funniest thing is that i don't care really :( should i? :D
 
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this is what ex'es do! :) one i dated 2 months ago keeps bringing stuff up on a forum i am active and she is too.. she says things like "some many guys hit on me everyday hhehehe" or "im feeling sooo good today its unbelievable"

the funniest thing is that i don't care really :( should i? :D

Haha, you should one day post on the forum, 'Aah, had the greatest night last night'.

Watch how she reacts to that :D
 
Haha, you should one day post on the forum, 'Aah, had the greatest night last night'.

Watch how she reacts to that :D

Nah I think he should say "Can't decide if I should take her to Paris or Rome" :D

that would pee her off so bad :D ill think about it lol.

damn she even registered on the same site i use to find new people.. cmon.. :eek: what exactly is she trying to do :confused:
 
You make her sound like she's a bit crazy!

no i don't mean to make her sound like that.. but I'm not exactly sure what she is trying to do :) i mean its over between us and she's trying to get "in my face" as much as she can so what exactly is she trying to achieve?
 
She's trying to get you jealous :) and if you do get jealous then her plan has worked and she'll feel good the fact that she can still make you jealous. Geddit?

yes i was thinking of it :) and i agree that is exactly what she is trying to do :D i don't really have much feelings left for her :o

And I'm not jealous at all tbh, its just annoying to see her everywhere :D

Why are you viewing her profile on the dating site anyway? Do you keep checking it for updates? Or is she sending the messages to you?

thats the funny thing! i am not viewing her profile :D its right on the front page/messages everywhere! in a side bar it displays girls from my city! and her name starts with A, and she's right there staring at me ! :D
 
Righty, after I was pretty unenthusiastic about my date on Friday, it turned out quite well, although she was incredibly hard to judge. Very surprisingly, I really liked her :p She also text to say the same thing. Plus, she's very hot and cool. A second date is definitely on the cards, just goes to show the ones you aren't that fussed about can still turn out to be winners.

Roll on my second date of the weekend with this other girl tomorrow. :)
 
Righty, after I was pretty unenthusiastic about my date on Friday, it turned out quite well, although she was incredibly hard to judge. Very surprisingly, I really liked her :p She also text to say the same thing. Plus, she's very hot and cool. A second date is definitely on the cards, just goes to show the ones you aren't that fussed about can still turn out to be winners.

Roll on my second date of the weekend with this other girl tomorrow. :)

Good going!

Right now my story:

Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.

Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.
 
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