Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

shifty_uk · 16 Aug 2012 at 23:16

Currently in a bit of a situation. I have 4 girls from POF texting me all the time, a couple of which I really like. I have 1 girl I had a fling with in the past wanting to meet up, again texting all the time and 3 girls texting from 'real life' clubs etc, wanting to go out...

I wanted all of this so badly and it's keeping me from thinking of my recent break up(we were together 4 years) but jeez, how do the 'players' handle this... I can't get away from the phone

Date tomorrow as I'm sure I mentioned then a date on Sunday and another on Tuesday, my wallet is knackered just thinking about it lol

grudas · 16 Aug 2012 at 23:25

shifty_uk said:
Currently in a bit of a situation. I have 4 girls from POF texting me all the time, a couple of which I really like. I have 1 girl I had a fling with in the past wanting to meet up, again texting all the time and 3 girls texting from 'real life' clubs etc, wanting to go out...

I wanted all of this so badly and it's keeping me from thinking of my recent break up(we were together 4 years) but jeez, how do the 'players' handle this... I can't get away from the phone

Date tomorrow as I'm sure I mentioned then a date on Sunday and another on Tuesday, my wallet is knackered just thinking about it lol

i had 8 at once, not long ago either.. that was HARD to keep up with so i just slowed it all down

D and took longer to reply etc..

D

HankScorpio · 16 Aug 2012 at 23:27

just keep a slip of paper in your pocket with Sunday's name and keep checking it so you don't do a paradisiac and call her the wrong name.

paradisiac · 17 Aug 2012 at 00:43

shifty_uk said:
Currently in a bit of a situation. I have 4 girls from POF texting me all the time, a couple of which I really like. I have 1 girl I had a fling with in the past wanting to meet up, again texting all the time and 3 girls texting from 'real life' clubs etc, wanting to go out...

I wanted all of this so badly and it's keeping me from thinking of my recent break up(we were together 4 years) but jeez, how do the 'players' handle this... I can't get away from the phone

Date tomorrow as I'm sure I mentioned then a date on Sunday and another on Tuesday, my wallet is knackered just thinking about it lol

HankScorpio said:
just keep a slip of paper in your pocket with Sunday's name and keep checking it so you don't do a paradisiac and call her the wrong name.

DO NOT I repeat DO NOT get the names mixed up, I swear it can only end badly

well holiday is good, can't complain. been an interesting time with the online dating thing, women it appears don't like being ignored.

grudas · 17 Aug 2012 at 00:51

Now now cmoon.. who likes getting ignored? No one :O werent you also saying how none of girl reply??? My reply rate is 97% :-D

paradisiac · 17 Aug 2012 at 00:52

grudas said:
Now now cmoon.. who likes getting ignored? No one :O werent you also saying how none of girl reply??? My reply rate is 97%

I have a fairly good reply rate currently, I just seem to lose interest very quickly at the moment.

PraxxtorCruel · 17 Aug 2012 at 01:12

WTH? You know I'm really hating you guys at the moment. How can ALL of you be getting 'cute' and 'hot' girls contacting you. GOD DAMMIT!!!

Jambo · 17 Aug 2012 at 01:42

HankScorpio said:
Just got a number from a cute and very interesting almost 20 year old. I'm 24 and feel slightly uncomfortable considering my younger sister is the same age. Is this weird or should I just go for it?

I'm 31 and my age range is 18-death.

Inclusive.

grudas · 17 Aug 2012 at 01:49

Jambo said:
I'm 31 and my age range is 18-death.

Inclusive.

one girl wrote me off and called me WAY TO OLD.. shes 17 and im 21.. cmon

PraxxtorCruel · 17 Aug 2012 at 01:50

grudas said:
one girl wrote me off and called me WAY TO OLD.. shes 17 and im 21.. cmon

That's pretty harsh. May I try instead?

grudas · 17 Aug 2012 at 01:59

PraxxtorCruel said:
That's pretty harsh. May I try instead?

no!

and one tried putting me in the friendzone.. i know the reason why but i moved quick and put her in the friendzone first.

but its all cool i just want to find people to have fun with! thats why i'm not on the dating sites...

i've ended my 2 year relationship just 2 months ago and in no way am i ready yet

Jambo · 17 Aug 2012 at 02:57

grudas said:
one girl wrote me off and called me WAY TO OLD.. shes 17 and im 21.. cmon

Playing hard to get.

grudas · 17 Aug 2012 at 03:16

Jambo said:
Playing hard to get.

she probably is you know(looking at the circumstances) :cool:

m@rty · 17 Aug 2012 at 05:16

Nothing to do with internet dating....but does anyone think a comedy show is ok for a first date?

naefeart · 17 Aug 2012 at 08:20

Only as long as you don't follow it with another, back at hers

WILD9 · 17 Aug 2012 at 08:43

m@rty said:
Nothing to do with internet dating....but does anyone think a comedy show is ok for a first date?

If its one of those ones with back to back standups like Jongleurs its not going to give you much time to talk.

HankScorpio · 17 Aug 2012 at 15:20

m@rty said:
Nothing to do with internet dating....but does anyone think a comedy show is ok for a first date?

I took a girl off POF to see Dylan Moran last year, we had a great time, but she jibbed me off shortly after.

PraxxtorCruel · 17 Aug 2012 at 15:29

HankScorpio said:
I took a girl off POF to see Dylan Moran last year, we had a great time, but she jibbed me off shortly after.

Definitely sounded like a great time. Did she give any idea as to why?

HankScorpio · 17 Aug 2012 at 15:32

Not sure, we didn't exactly live 'close', though a few buses or trains sorted that out. I reallyed liked her, had loads in common and I think I suggested going out for dinner a bit too hard maybe? I'm not sure, but it was like 2 weeks after the show. She agreed and texted and talked on fb a lot afterwards then when the day came for the meal she just went blank on me.

Janesy B · 17 Aug 2012 at 16:13

HankScorpio said:
Not sure, we didn't exactly live 'close', though a few buses or trains sorted that out. I reallyed liked her, had loads in common and I think I suggested going out for dinner a bit too hard maybe? I'm not sure, but it was like 2 weeks after the show. She agreed and texted and talked on fb a lot afterwards then when the day came for the meal she just went blank on me.

Nice.