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Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.
Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.
Good going!
Right now my story:
Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.
Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.
i blocked her and now she's gone of the front page.. at least i can message others without her staring at me..
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Now she just needs to think up some witty (haha) message to send to you to either wind you up, make you jealous or try and get back with you.
PERSON IS NOT ACCEPTING MESSAGES FROM YOU BECAUSE HE IS IGNORING YOU.
Would love to see the rage reaction on that![]()
Good going!
Right now my story:
Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.
Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.
I did, but no reply![]()
Righty, date today went quite well had a good day but I'm not interested in taking it any further unfortunatelySometimes someone just isn't for you personality wise! She was very cute though at least!
Got another date on Tuesday and a second date with the girl I met on Friday, should be happening next Saturday. Unrelated but I've also got dates with girls I met and got a bit cheeky with on nights out.
This is good because it's keeping me from thinking about the ex and how devastated I was over that but I think I'm biting off more than I can chew here arranging so many datesMight have to reign it in a bit!
Lmao, I've actually not messaged many and as said earlier in the thread absolutely under no circumstances EVER message 'HI' or 'Hi, how are you'....Always start with something funny relating to something in their profile, be a cheeky charmer but never compliment them or their looks! Maybe I'm wrong but it's worked for me
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Yeah, that makes sense. The witty guys speak to me (figuratively) more than the guys who just write 'hi, how are you?'. Anyone can write that - it looks like they haven't even read your profile. The guys that pee me off even more are the ones who write 'hi sexy' - you seriously thing I'll reply to that?! ahh, rant over!
Yeah, that makes sense. The witty guys speak to me (figuratively) more than the guys who just write 'hi, how are you?'. Anyone can write that - it looks like they haven't even read your profile. The guys that pee me off even more are the ones who write 'hi sexy' - you seriously thing I'll reply to that?! ahh, rant over!
Yeah, that makes sense. The witty guys speak to me (figuratively) more than the guys who just write 'hi, how are you?'. Anyone can write that - it looks like they haven't even read your profile. The guys that pee me off even more are the ones who write 'hi sexy' - you seriously thing I'll reply to that?! ahh, rant over!
"Hey, how are you?" works with me. Doesn't matter how good the message if I don't find the person attractive. In a way "Hi how are you" is like testing the water.Lmao, I've actually not messaged many and as said earlier in the thread absolutely under no circumstances EVER message 'HI' or 'Hi, how are you'....Always start with something funny relating to something in their profile, be a cheeky charmer but never compliment them or their looks! Maybe I'm wrong but it's worked for me
edit: Oh and always drop your number in there after chatting for a while and saying something along the lines off ''have to dash out, going to such and such etc etc etc, here's my number if you fancy texting''. Never ask for a number haha![]()
"Hey, how are you?" works with me. Doesn't matter how good the message if I don't find the person attractive. In a way "Hi how are you" is like testing the water.
When a guy just gives me his number, 9/10 times I would ignore. I think it's rude and they should be the ones asking for my number.
I think it's rude and they should be the ones asking for my number.
Why should they be the one asking for your number?
So men have to initiate conversation first, they have to ask for the number.
Are women so afraid of rejection that they have to distance themselves from it as far as possible, why do men have to take all the risks and rejection?