Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.

Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.

Lmao, nice one :D
 
Good going!

Right now my story:

Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.

Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.

wooow well done :DD you probably freaked her out..
 
:D:D i blocked her and now she's gone of the front page.. at least i can message others without her staring at me.. :D:D

Now she just needs to think up some witty (haha) message to send to you to either wind you up, make you jealous or try and get back with you.

PERSON IS NOT ACCEPTING MESSAGES FROM YOU BECAUSE HE IS IGNORING YOU.

Would love to see the rage reaction on that :cool:
 
Now she just needs to think up some witty (haha) message to send to you to either wind you up, make you jealous or try and get back with you.

PERSON IS NOT ACCEPTING MESSAGES FROM YOU BECAUSE HE IS IGNORING YOU.

Would love to see the rage reaction on that :cool:

the funny thing is why is she getting in my face lol, i know she can use w/e she wants but she was screeeaaaming how bad she wants me out of her head, she removed me from fb, blocked my phone number etc etc.. :confused::confused::D
 
Good going!

Right now my story:

Been chatting to this ladeh for a few days, yesterday she asked me to guess her name. Okay, very simple right? Listen further, I googled her okcupid username, which returned her facebook account and then just read the name. So I typed her name into a reply box and she was completely freaked out how I guessed it. Then started thinking I done some sort of 'hacking'. Her last sentence was 'you've really scared me'.

Looks like this one is gonna be a no go.

Why not just tell her exactly what you did?
 
Actually, I received a reply back and she seems to be even more excited now. Look don't ask me, I personally thought it was dead from that point. It seems to go from one point being quiet to suddenly chatting like mad, getting along really well back to quiet. I don't think she knows what she wants or she must be having conflicting thoughts? Cause she has mentioned, she is looking for a bf and not a friend, she has also said I seem like a really nice person. Although I do feel like something is holding her back. Argh internet dating...
 
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Righty, date today went quite well had a good day but I'm not interested in taking it any further unfortunately :( Sometimes someone just isn't for you personality wise! She was very cute though at least!

Got another date on Tuesday and a second date with the girl I met on Friday, should be happening next Saturday. Unrelated but I've also got dates with girls I met and got a bit cheeky with on nights out.

This is good because it's keeping me from thinking about the ex and how devastated I was over that but I think I'm biting off more than I can chew here arranging so many dates :p Might have to reign it in a bit!
 
Righty, date today went quite well had a good day but I'm not interested in taking it any further unfortunately :( Sometimes someone just isn't for you personality wise! She was very cute though at least!

Got another date on Tuesday and a second date with the girl I met on Friday, should be happening next Saturday. Unrelated but I've also got dates with girls I met and got a bit cheeky with on nights out.

This is good because it's keeping me from thinking about the ex and how devastated I was over that but I think I'm biting off more than I can chew here arranging so many dates :p Might have to reign it in a bit!

Why do I have a feeling your first message to all women is "Hi, wanna go out on a date"? Do you just mass send it? :D
 
Lmao, I've actually not messaged many and as said earlier in the thread absolutely under no circumstances EVER message 'HI' or 'Hi, how are you'....Always start with something funny relating to something in their profile, be a cheeky charmer but never compliment them or their looks! Maybe I'm wrong but it's worked for me :)

edit: Oh and always drop your number in there after chatting for a while and saying something along the lines off ''have to dash out, going to such and such etc etc etc, here's my number if you fancy texting''. Never ask for a number haha :)
 
Lmao, I've actually not messaged many and as said earlier in the thread absolutely under no circumstances EVER message 'HI' or 'Hi, how are you'....Always start with something funny relating to something in their profile, be a cheeky charmer but never compliment them or their looks! Maybe I'm wrong but it's worked for me :)
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Yeah, that makes sense. The witty guys speak to me (figuratively) more than the guys who just write 'hi, how are you?'. Anyone can write that - it looks like they haven't even read your profile. The guys that pee me off even more are the ones who write 'hi sexy' - you seriously thing I'll reply to that?! ahh, rant over!
 
Yeah, that makes sense. The witty guys speak to me (figuratively) more than the guys who just write 'hi, how are you?'. Anyone can write that - it looks like they haven't even read your profile. The guys that pee me off even more are the ones who write 'hi sexy' - you seriously thing I'll reply to that?! ahh, rant over!

hey sexy.. :o
 
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Yeah, that makes sense. The witty guys speak to me (figuratively) more than the guys who just write 'hi, how are you?'. Anyone can write that - it looks like they haven't even read your profile. The guys that pee me off even more are the ones who write 'hi sexy' - you seriously thing I'll reply to that?! ahh, rant over!

Girls send those rubbish messages as well. Flattered and all that jazz, but seriously it is a rubbish way to get the foot in the door.
 
Lmao, I've actually not messaged many and as said earlier in the thread absolutely under no circumstances EVER message 'HI' or 'Hi, how are you'....Always start with something funny relating to something in their profile, be a cheeky charmer but never compliment them or their looks! Maybe I'm wrong but it's worked for me :)

edit: Oh and always drop your number in there after chatting for a while and saying something along the lines off ''have to dash out, going to such and such etc etc etc, here's my number if you fancy texting''. Never ask for a number haha :)
"Hey, how are you?" works with me. Doesn't matter how good the message if I don't find the person attractive. In a way "Hi how are you" is like testing the water.

When a guy just gives me his number, 9/10 times I would ignore. I think it's rude and they should be the ones asking for my number.
 
"Hey, how are you?" works with me. Doesn't matter how good the message if I don't find the person attractive. In a way "Hi how are you" is like testing the water.

When a guy just gives me his number, 9/10 times I would ignore. I think it's rude and they should be the ones asking for my number.

it works for me too i don't see a problem with it :)

but again why is it rude for guy to give his number to you? is it because he's a MALE and you're a FEMALE? ;) :eek:
 
I think it's rude and they should be the ones asking for my number.

Why should they be the one asking for your number?

So men have to initiate conversation first, they have to ask for the number.

Are women so afraid of rejection that they have to distance themselves from it as far as possible, why do men have to take all the risks and rejection?
 
Why should they be the one asking for your number?

So men have to initiate conversation first, they have to ask for the number.

Are women so afraid of rejection that they have to distance themselves from it as far as possible, why do men have to take all the risks and rejection?

exactly.. i don't get it either.. i hate women who expect men to do everything! tbh i have only messaged ONE girl out of 8 i am chatting with regularly! well done them.
 
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