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I met my wife via internet dating , was married for 10 years with a little girl of 5 . . . So it does work
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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Was married, or still are married?
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Separated now for 6 months
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No more of a tragedy than any other marriage that ends?
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Would not say its a tragedy , how many couples meet via the internet dating and stay together for 10 years not many i would say , + i have a 6 year old daughter also
Another kid with a broken family. Yay.
Sorry if I'm coming across as insulting. I don't really mean to at all, it's just all in all I think it's better if the sort of thing that you have done didn't happen at all.
Absolutely, one that involves a child that is.
Yes, you are being overly, unecessarily harsh. The vast majority of marriages now end in seperation or divorce, and there is no way of knowing where you will be 10 years down the line, or how much one of the people will change during that time.
If someone gets married off of a dating site then the site itself can be measured as a success... what happens afterwards is down to the individuals and what life throws at them. Plenty of kids from separated families have good lives and grow up to be successful individuals with the loving support of both parents.
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Zefan u have no idea so keep your silly comments to your self and go play big planet ! ! !
Broken family not in this case . Like i said not many couples are together more then 10 years , i have no regrets at all meeting my wife via the internet so we are just have 6 months apart , is that such a big deal ?
Got to love a reasonable point of view being countered by childish reactions and insults.
I'd make a comment referring to a possible link between your seeming inability to take criticism/handle points of view contrary to your own and your marital breakdown but I won't, because I don't like to point score like that.
I'd make a comment referring to a possible link between your seeming inability to take criticism/handle points of view contrary to your own and your marital breakdown but I won't, because I don't like to point score like that.
And yet you, erm, did.
Whoops! Just slipped out I guess! I'm so clumsy.
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so you can see into the future and know 100% how everything in your life will pan out? seriously?!?
I agree.
Separation isn't always a bad or selfish thing to do anyway. What's the point in staying married just for the kids if there is no love at all between the couple? The bad relationship between them will just affect their kids and their childhood as they grow up watching their parents argue all the time.
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oh mischief, how can you be so naïve. my kids much preferred me and their mum shouting and fighting all the time over seeing us happy now we aren't together and are actually spending quality time with them. who wants this for their kids, I mean, a loveless relationship is far better than separating and actually giving your kids what they need.
Did I say that? What I said was that I think a broken family isn't really a good result for a dating site. It's just an opinion. If you don't like it, feel free to go ahead and stuff it ten feet up your arse.
Wuuuuuuuuuut???? She is actually right..
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