Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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One month on after meeting someone I really liked and its going really well started seeing each other all weekend and pretty much every other day hope it lasts like this never been so happy tbh (bah feel so gay lol).
 
Don't worry, you're not special! It's just what I do.

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i know lol, im just taking the mick! ;) both are correct and shes being picky again :D
I'm not being picky, I'm being correct! (like always)

Is it wrong to try and hook my friend up with a guy I met from POF? I've already told the guy that I want nothing more than friends, but how do you think he will react if I try and introduce him to my friend? :D
 
I'm not being picky, I'm being correct! (like always)

Is it wrong to try and hook my friend up with a guy I met from POF? I've already told the guy that I want nothing more than friends, but how do you think he will react if I try and introduce him to my friend? :D

Depends on how fit said friend is, :p


Did he contact you and does he know where he stands with you? Why does your friend not make her own profile and contact him (presuming he still has an account)?
 
She's erm... Well. Not fit but has great personality.

The guy knows where he stands. We've met up like 4 times so he clearly knows he's not getting anywhere with me. My friend will never sign up to a dating site as she doesn't like to meet complete strangers. Ive showed her his pics and she's up for meeting him but I just don't know how to ask this guy :p
 
She's erm... Well. Not fit but has great personality.

The guy knows where he stands. We've met up like 4 times so he clearly knows he's not getting anywhere with me. My friend will never sign up to a dating site as she doesn't like to meet complete strangers. Ive showed her his pics and she's up for meeting him but I just don't know how to ask this guy :p

Its not going to be easy, unless your very careful its going to come across as "Im too good for you but here is my less atractive friend who is more in your league" at which point he will resent you and think your friend isn't good enough for him. Can you get her to message him on facebook or make contact hereself in some way?
 
She's erm... Well. Not fit but has great personality.

The guy knows where he stands. We've met up like 4 times so he clearly knows he's not getting anywhere with me. My friend will never sign up to a dating site as she doesn't like to meet complete strangers. Ive showed her his pics and she's up for meeting him but I just don't know how to ask this guy :p

Just be frank with him. Just say "I know I've just met you, and this is a little bit crazy, but this is my friend - date her maybe?"
 
She's erm... Well. Not fit but has great personality.

The guy knows where he stands. We've met up like 4 times so he clearly knows he's not getting anywhere with me. My friend will never sign up to a dating site as she doesn't like to meet complete strangers. Ive showed her his pics and she's up for meeting him but I just don't know how to ask this guy :p

Oh come on be realistic... the guy is hardly going to want to date your uglier friend "with a nice personality" is he? He wanted you, and anyone you introduce to him will be judged by that.. and that's not good for him or your friend. Es ist nich Raketentechnik. :p

Forget him, and introduce your friend to someone else with more realistic expectations who didn't try to hit on you. :)
 
Well, as of last night I am now voluntarily single again... so will be hitting some online dating action. Watch this space. :p
Already? Don't you need to go through some sort of a post break up recovery process or something :p

Just be frank with him. Just say "I know I've just met you, and this is a little bit crazy, but this is my friend - date her maybe?"
:D

Hmm well I guess I won't purposely go out of my way to ask if he'd like to meet my friend. Maybe one day I'll sneakily ask what he's up to on the weekend, then if he says nothing I'll say "Oh my friend and I are going to blah blah blah, you can join if you want!" :p
 
Already? Don't you need to go through some sort of a post break up recovery process or something :p

It's been on the cards for a while, so mentally I already kind of have. Anyway, i'm not looking for anything "relationshippy" for a while, just dates and good times. ;)
 
think I am going to give up on this whole internet dating thing. met 5 people now, and well, lets say (apart from the first one) none have looked as nice as their pics :p I think the pics were taken a couple of years ago, and since then they have been to every 'all you can eat' weekend since :(
 
think I am going to give up on this whole internet dating thing. met 5 people now, and well, lets say (apart from the first one) none have looked as nice as their pics :p I think the pics were taken a couple of years ago, and since then they have been to every 'all you can eat' weekend since :(
As long as they have a pretty face, the fat can be lost :p
 
I guess there is that, but im too old for the long game :p what if they don't lose it, or don't want to?
Well then, by that time you would've hopefully fallen for their personality and not just their looks :D

if they're above 28, then chances are they won't without mammoth effort. :p
Hmmm true. The older you are, the more difficult it is to lose fat :o
 
Well then, by that time you would've hopefully fallen for their personality and not just their looks :D

but what is personality without attraction? I dunno, maybe im just shallow, but if you post a picture looking all slim and turn up looking like a whale, says something about your mental stability and honesty.

Hmmm true. The older you are, the more difficult it is to lose fat :o

cant use the puppy fat excuse then.
 
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