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Truth be told, I've seen you post all round the forums. We don't agree on most things in the slightest (you'd be insane if you did), but you come across very articulately. You're very presentable, you've got a career etc etc.
I'd say that such sites really are not for you. Unless you're a complete **** in real life, then you're bound to meet someone.
This site is full of weird people, and whilst I think there are few genuine people, I think you've more chance of being saddled with a right old nag.
Most girls start to lose the upper hand at your age, so you can be picky. ^_^
edit: strong no homo, but you're actually good looking, you've got a good head of hair, pleasant smile etc. Maybe work on on your body a bit more as you said you were slightly overweight (not that I care at all myself). Also you mentioned height a few times in a way that suggested it was a limiting factor. It's like the size of your wang. The people who it REALLY matters to you wouldn't want to know anyway.
Be honest, slight bit homo.
For the record though, it wasn't about buffing me up, it was just the point out if I can be there, one should be careful to brand the users desperado. While it seems weirdos are in abundance, there are folks like me.
My explanation is very simple. I had an extremely hot girlfriend ( most of my friends would say, I got bored of looking at her a bit, but she definitely started out extremely hot ) who was a *****. I also spent more time working and doing my masters than I'd have preferred. My social life took a back seat to the three.
Girlfriend left, it was always going to end, but I spent time in denial. Work went back to normal and the masters went away ( I still have to do my thesis but I'm not doing it right now ). At my age, friends are married, shacked up and moved away. Sitting here scratching my head at where to go forward, it didn't seem like a terrible idea from reading the thread and I also joined the gym.
Regardless, I'm just trying to offer an alternative view point. I don't think I'm a weirdo or desperate. People generally like me (at least from my pov). You've basically acknowledge that and I've acknowledged the fact the sites don't seem to work, I just wanted to clarify the point of my post.
p.s. Not all my forum opinions are actually mine(devils advocate). I don't actually have height issues. I definitely need to lose about 1st, but its hidden under clothes and it'll be gone in < 6 months.
Also although I wouldn't say any of the girls you posted were stunning, I checked a few of their profiles and some of them are date probably worthy to be fair.
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