Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Flipt said:
I got a reply...

"I was going to say I doubt very much you know me lol

I joined the site yesterday its not good is it?"

My response...

"I think you would have freaked out if I had known you from somewhere... The last thing you want is to be recognised on here by someone you know! Haha

This site is certainly... How shall I put it?... "Random and special" I think that's best to describe it.... Hmmm is that the site or the people on here? Actually I am sure POF stands for plenty of freaks lol. You can tell already how much I love this site haha... So much so I was thinking of spending my hard earned money to become an upgraded member! Yeah right!

Anyway enough negativity... More to the positive point that we are chatting. As you haven't told me your name yet you will be known as Miss Lemonsqueezer until you divulge such private information :P"

I am now thinking that was a rather long message back and I should have dumbed it down a little! Lets wait and see what happens...
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I wouldn't post profiles of girls you're messaging here. Theres always a chance someone who doesn't like your posts or the mean spirited will message the girl about you. Even if you're not doing anything really wrong, I can't imagine the girl would take well to you discussing how to chat her up on a forum.
 
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Flipt said:
I am now thinking that was a rather long message back and I should have dumbed it down a little! Lets wait and see what happens...
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First thing I thought was: "He's overwritten it, and it's too long".

aln said:
I wouldn't post profiles of girls you're messaging here. Theres always a chance someone who doesn't like your posts or the mean spirited will message the girl about you. Even if you're not doing anything really wrong, I can't imagine the girl would take well to you discussing how to chat her up on a forum.
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Yup, takes a sad person with no life to do that kind of thing, but unfortunately they do as we have seen already in the thread!
 
aln said:
I wouldn't post profiles of girls you're messaging here. Theres always a chance someone who doesn't like your posts or the mean spirited will message the girl about you. Even if you're not doing anything really wrong, I can't imagine the girl would take well to you discussing how to chat her up on a forum.
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Yeah you are right and with the amount of members on this public forum it could be done with ease, and back fire. Although it is fun discussing chatting to women and what we say in order get a response... I think if the boot was on the other foot it wouldn't be nice at all. It comes across as game playing and messing about, which in fairness is not my style. I will not be posting more dialog, but only offer constructive advice to people who need it :)
 
Flipt said:
Yeah you are right and with the amount of members on this public forum it could be done with ease, and back fire. Although it is fun discussing chatting to women and what we say in order get a response... I think if the boot was on the other foot it wouldn't be nice at all. It comes across as game playing and messing about, which in fairness is not my style. I will not be posting more dialog, but only offer constructive advice to people who need it :)
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Better to forgo the links to the woman than forgo discussing tactics in my opinion.

pingwing said:
Just to join in with the "got a Hey :)" opener crew I got one
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I had two really decent coversations start with the womans "hey". Woman don't normally approach; I'm happy with a hey if the profile looks alright.
 
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Flipt said:
Yeah you are right and with the amount of members on this public forum it could be done with ease, and back fire. Although it is fun discussing chatting to women and what we say in order get a response... I think if the boot was on the other foot it wouldn't be nice at all. It comes across as game playing and messing about, which in fairness is not my style. I will not be posting more dialog, but only offer constructive advice to people who need it :)
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No need to go so far. As long as you don't post names, and keep the women anonymous, then it doesn't matter and they won't find out.
 
Ok I'm doing it. Going for a drink with the 19yo. Just a drink. We're meeting tomorrow night in a very very VERY secret location :p

Spoke to her on the phone over lunch and she is actually quite cool.

This is crazy but an interesting experience for sure
 
regulus said:
Ok I'm doing it. Going for a drink with the 19yo. Just a drink. We're meeting tomorrow night in a very very VERY secret location :p

Spoke to her on the phone over lunch and she is actually quite cool.

This is crazy but an interesting experience for sure
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You know what to do.
 
Just a drink... Haha yea yea.
A little while later and you'll be sunk to the nuts playing wheelbarrows in her bedroom!
 
It's annoying when people don't make the effort to ask questions in messages... I've stopped talking to one guy because it got to the point where it felt like I was interviewing him and he was just answering my questions.

Another guy who I'm talking to at the moment is doing the same thing.

Arghhh!!!
 
MisChief said:
It's annoying when people don't make the effort to ask questions in messages... I've stopped talking to one guy because it got to the point where it felt like I was interviewing him and he was just answering my questions.

Another guy who I'm talking to at the moment is doing the same thing.

Arghhh!!!
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:eek::D
 
Haven't logged in for ages, but there's another 8 messages waiting for me. :eek:


Going to delete the account later today.


Summary of POF:

Some really nice intelligent dolphins, some cheeky clownfishes and slippery eels, amidst an ocean of wales.
 
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