Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I can't stand girls that reply with one worded messages.. they have one shot, if it happens again I ignore them. . Is this harsh? ? I can't see any point when they make 0 effort lol.
 
grudas said:
I can't stand girls that reply with one worded messages.. they have one shot, if it happens again I ignore them. . Is this harsh? ? I can't see any point when they make 0 effort lol.
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Usually I'd read it as they're not interested but theres the odd situation where I wouldn't mind.

For example if they send you an unsolicited "hi", I'd probably reply (if I liked their pictures/profile) on the basis they've done more than 90% of girls.

Some people on here come across as extremely judgemental and will probably be forever alone.
 
grudas said:
I can't stand girls that reply with one worded messages.. they have one shot, if it happens again I ignore them. . Is this harsh? ? I can't see any point when they make 0 effort lol.
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I would reply with something along the lines of "Judging by your profile I would have thought you were more of a conversationalist, or do you come on here just for the photos blokes send over? :p"
 
aln said:
Usually I'd read it as they're not interested but theres the odd situation where I wouldn't mind.

For example if they send you an unsolicited "hi", I'd probably reply (if I liked their pictures/profile) on the basis they've done more than 90% of girls.

Some people on here come across as extremely judgemental and will probably be forever alone.
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a hi is not a problem, but when a girl messeges me and then starts replying with 1word messages that are hart to keep the convo going i just get annoyed.. i reply just because not because i actually like them :(

Gzero said:
Yes :p
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:o

Flipt said:
I would reply with something along the lines of "Judging by your profile I would have thought you were more of a conversationalist, or do you come on here just for the photos blokes send over? :p"
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i've done this.. got ignored after that message.. :D
 
Meh, I've been binned off for tonight.. Apparently shes come down with a cold so wants to rearrange for the weekend instead!
 
Street said:
Meh, I've been binned off for tonight.. Apparently shes come down with a cold so wants to rearrange for the weekend instead!
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theres a lot of colds about at the mo!

i have yet to get a date yet, haven't had one from online dating at all, not been on a date in a few months and even then wasn't really a date to be honest.
id love to get a date though, even if nothing comes of it, id like to just meet someone i haven't met before! haha
 
The1nonly1 said:
Need some advice here. Meet a girl Friday, we've been chatting and are going out this week but I'm stuck for ideas. I don't really want to do the meal yet as I'd rather go somewhere that is fun and we can have a laugh and get to know each other that way.
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I read some advice that if you take her on a first date that gets her heart beating faster. (extreme sports, go karting, anything like that) then she will confuse it with being attracted to you?

Could be complete crack. But could be true?
 
Princey said:
Is presenting flowers too much on a first date?
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Yes, it just adds to the pressure of a first date. IMO a first date should be informal and as relaxed as possiable and you should approach with zero expectations. Going for a coffee is a good way of getting to know someone and if things work out ask her if she wants to see a film of get a bite to eat.
 
first date don't do anything special. second/third be as fun as you want. if you think there is likely to be a second date wait for that as then there wont be the pressure as there would have been on the first date. flowers on first date also to me is to compensate for not being good at dates, as at least you brought flowers.
 
Actually excited! Have a date set up tomorrow afternoon for a game of dinosaur mini golf! She seems nice as well which is a bonus after the last mess of a date, plus her pictures demonstrate a normal head shape and there's no chance of me setting of a speed camera...
 
Well, talking about internet dating it sounds good but somewhat risky. There are many fraud internet dating websites who do fraud and they itself has their own person who sit and can cheat with you. Although, first dating does not mean that she fell in love with you. I think on fourth date you are in position to ask her about you and can propose her if she agrees.
 
Went for the coldest first date which was loads of fun and I'm buzzing a bit from it as she was so nice! Had a round of dinosaur mini golf a cool get to know you sort of chat without getting awkward or worried about finding Each other attractive. Going to have to think of a cool second date now even though she's got a medic placement in Essex for a few weeks

:) is my little face
 
pingwing said:
Went for the coldest first date which was loads of fun and I'm buzzing a bit from it as she was so nice! Had a round of dinosaur mini golf a cool get to know you sort of chat without getting awkward or worried about finding Each other attractive. Going to have to think of a cool second date now even though she's got a medic placement in Essex for a few weeks

:) is my little face
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thats good! ive always thought mini golf would be a good first date, both get to laugh and its easy to get to know each other :)

im still looking for that first date with anyone..... haha
 
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