Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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FatFishMonster said:
thats good! ive always thought mini golf would be a good first date, both get to laugh and its easy to get to know each other :)

im still looking for that first date with anyone..... haha
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It's hilarious, though I didn't win thanks to a bit of golf failing and is a good way of getting to know someone. Just need to be sensible about when to message again/organise date 2, like a sensible person.

The dates will come, it's all about getting good at the waiting game!
 
pingwing said:
It's hilarious, though I didn't win thanks to a bit of golf failing and is a good way of getting to know someone. Just need to be sensible about when to message again/organise date 2, like a sensible person.

The dates will come, it's all about getting good at the waiting game!
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maybe take her go karting or bowling for the second date? just to keep it fun as youll still be getting to know each other, then if your lucky enough to get a third go for a romantic meal? thats how i would play it.

yeah, unfortunatley i dont have good patience, i never have! haha
theres plenty of girls on FB that i know that i would consider dating, i just dunno how to speak to them over FB as is a bit wierd been as i never speak to them haha
im in no rush to get into a full blown relationship, i just want female company more than anything (no i dont mean sex) haha
 
Bowling might be hilarious all though it looks like a trip to the zoo might be a big option first. Going to play it cool for a little bit before getting to into it all as I can't jump back into mental relationships or anything like that.

Ha! You'll have to learn some :p
Why are these women on your facebook if you've never spoken to them??
"female company" you say... Seems suspect...
 
pingwing said:
It's hilarious, though I didn't win thanks to a bit of golf failing and is a good way of getting to know someone. Just need to be sensible about when to message again/organise date 2, like a sensible person.

The dates will come, it's all about getting good at the waiting game!
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Nice to hear all went well for you. For the second date you should keep it fun again... as fatfish says... Go karting and bowling are your best bet :)

As for the third date you could take her out for something a little more formal like a meal, but this time joke at the end of the second date that you would like to have a real date next time and go for a meal or drink like normal people are supposed to do :)
 
pingwing said:
Bowling might be hilarious all though it looks like a trip to the zoo might be a big option first. Going to play it cool for a little bit before getting to into it all as I can't jump back into mental relationships or anything like that.

Ha! You'll have to learn some :p
Why are these women on your facebook if you've never spoken to them??
"female company" you say... Seems suspect...
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ah zoo sounds cool! if i was to go the zoo i would spend most of the time taking photos as i love animals, i would end up seeming "rude" hahaa

i know them, ive spoken to them, like when ive gone out with a few lads and these girls have been their like tag along if that makes sense, then i get added on facebook by them! so i do know them, just not at stage where i would know what to say to them over facebook, i would just come across as "that wierd guy that one of friends knows" haha
 
Dunks said:
Is karting really that good an idea for a first/second date? You'll spend 2/3 of the time apart.
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no necessarily, the race would last say, 10-20 mins, depending on what sort of go karting it is, im not talking like a full blown grand prix likes some places offer.
once finished, you can then go grab some dohnuts or some food and laugh about who won etc....
 
hhmmm, messaged a girl earlier, she messaged back straight away near enough, have a few messages, she asked for my fb link. i thought why not? can always block her if she turns out to be a fruit cake.
she adds me, been fb stalking as you do! and she seems nice! pretty good looking aswell, and then she asked me if i had skype? i dont have skype but i still found it tad strange..... so she could end up being a fruit cake! well see!
 
pingwing said:
Actually excited! Have a date set up tomorrow afternoon for a game of dinosaur mini golf! She seems nice as well which is a bonus after the last mess of a date, plus her pictures demonstrate a normal head shape and there's no chance of me setting of a speed camera...
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I did that on a POF date too. In the rain. :D

FatFishMonster said:
hhmmm, messaged a girl earlier, she messaged back straight away near enough, have a few messages, she asked for my fb link. i thought why not? can always block her if she turns out to be a fruit cake.
she adds me, been fb stalking as you do! and she seems nice! pretty good looking aswell, and then she asked me if i had skype? i dont have skype but i still found it tad strange..... so she could end up being a fruit cake! well see!
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You found what a tad strange? That she asked for your Skype? She might just want to see you on webcam to see what you're like. I'm not a fan of it though, I just refuse and talk on the phone and arrange to meet.
 
Jambo said:
You found what a tad strange? That she asked for your Skype? She might just want to see you on webcam to see what you're like. I'm not a fan of it though, I just refuse and talk on the phone and arrange to meet.
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wouldnt say i found it strange, just not what i expected someone to ask! haha
yeh thats most likley why, to check im not some creepy old man!

she is a strange one though, cant really read the signals properly, shes been quite short really even though im putting effort into my messages, maybe shes playing hard to get! haha
either that or shes just crazy and is a facebook friend hoarder!
 
so this hot-ish chick.. goes and rates my photo.. pays money to actually get me on front of the page(one vote one pay ~2quid) comments saying that "she wants one like me along side her"

all cool and stuff.. but it sound kinda desperate.. anyway being an ass that i am lately i ignore it so she send me a message.. i kinda feel like a hunter lol, i cba with girls that are easy to get(even tho she lives mileeeees away) but i try with girls that ignore me :o

should i reply? i know i cant be bothered i kinda expect it to last 3-5 messages at best..

but then again this is how it started with my ex with who i spent 2 years lol.
 
grudas said:
so this hot-ish chick.. goes and rates my photo.. pays money to actually get me on front of the page(one vote one pay ~2quid) comments saying that "she wants one like me along side her"

all cool and stuff.. but it sound kinda desperate.. anyway being an ass that i am lately i ignore it so she send me a message.. i kinda feel like a hunter lol, i cba with girls that are easy to get(even tho she lives mileeeees away) but i try with girls that ignore me :o

should i reply? i know i cant be bothered i kinda expect it to last 3-5 messages at best..

but then again this is how it started with my ex with who i spent 2 years lol.
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You should delete your profile you weirdo. :)

What site is this where you need to pay?
 
aln said:
You should delete your profile you weirdo. :)

What site is this where you need to pay?
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its not a dating site in the first place! its just a nice site to keep your photos at and people can rate it and i've had account on it since i was a kiddo.. it has a story behind it! no way am i deleting it ;D

it's not in english so pointless to you guys..

anyone here has a profile on www.beautifulpeople.com ? :D more hot chicks on it but the amount you need to pay to even send an email is crazy.. i think you even need to pay to read it?! basically bigger ratio of hot chicks to ok chicks(no ugly ones due to system)

and chick actually are really active.. well they were a couple of years ago when i had an account on it but then they made everything paid so i removed it :o
 
starting to fizzle out already....
current convo!

me: oh right haha
whats he called? (talking about her dog)

he:buddy

me:cool name!
i have 3 fish!

her:cool

Me:so whats your favourite film of all time then?

her: Back to the future

me:cool!
whats your favourite tv show?

her:catfish
 
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