I don't think it can be anything else.
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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I don't think it can be anything else.
I'm quite private so prefer not to, but there isnt a huge amount on my profile, I just talk about interests, goals etc and put ask me for more info.
Just got back from a drink with a girl, who I was interested in. Its really weird meeting someone as I already had a perception of what they would be like before we met.
It was a little awkward and lasted 2 hours, and I have just texted her to see if she wants to meet again. She was ok, but a little serious if you know what I mean, not a girly girl.
I think part of this I am going to hate is chatting on POF for ages, then meeting someone to either not like them or get rejected myself, OR as like has happened today, get rejected or not, but still myself not be 100% sure whether its a keeper or not.
I am fedup with this already!
Edit, : Nice person hard decision but not sure can see it going further.
Rejection is depressing!
Chin up fellas. It DOES work. I've met my gorgeous lady just over 4 months ago and truly couldn't be any happier. She's moving in with me in November and we're spending Christmas with her parents in New Zealand. Dating all these women like I done 5-6 months ago seem like a strange distant dream now.
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Update 2: she has a kid. This is going well... She's nice though. Possible date on Friday...
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not really related to internet dating! but!
i appear to have meet someone in real life! my friends step sister, she seems genuinely interested, have shared a fair few hugs and kisses!
i appear to have meet someone in real life! my friends step sister, she seems genuinely interested, have shared a fair few hugs and kisses!
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Nice one!
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to be honest, shes not really the type of girl i go for.....
but, i have no other options, so im going to see where it leads.
Wow you romantic old fool you. Hope she doesn't read this forum.
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Not to be a ****, but sounds like a recipe for disaster mate.
I read that as she shaved her legs and everything...
Not sure if my way is more positive
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What do you mean by the first bit?
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Ahh, true love. lol.
Soldato
Don't mess around then..
if you don't give a whip now don't bother and don't waste her time.
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i mean, shes the type of girl, who's out on the town most weekends and all that, and that's normally not the the type i go for as ive found it causes too much hassle.
nah, i like spending time with her and do fancie her, the only reason i question the whole thing is that fact that shes not normally the type i go for, and certain things she says/does make me just think "ummmm?!" also given she knows a few of my mates, you hear.....stories! and i normally go for girls who none of my friends tend to know! but to be honest thats just me being pickey!
ill see how it goes, but i don't plan on leading her on if i don't feel the same.
a couple of mates are saying "bag and tag it" but thats not who i am and its not what im after.
also given my age, i havent found many girls who arent out on the drink most weekends.
but its nice for someone to actually be interested in me for once and i enjoy the company!
Soldato
i mean, shes the type of girl, who's out on the town most weekends and all that, and that's normally not the the type i go for as ive found it causes too much hassle.
nah, i like spending time with her and do fancie her, the only reason i question the whole thing is that fact that shes not normally the type i go for, and certain things she says/does make me just think "ummmm?!" also given she knows a few of my mates, you hear.....stories! and i normally go for girls who none of my friends tend to know! but to be honest thats just me being pickey!
ill see how it goes, but i don't plan on leading her on if i don't feel the same.
a couple of mates are saying "bag and tag it" but thats not who i am and its not what im after.
also given my age, i havent found many girls who arent out on the drink most weekends.
but its nice for someone to actually be interested in me for once and i enjoy the company!
looking at your "success" picky is not something you should be.. but if you aren't sure don't mess around with the chick.. some of them really get hit hard.. especially if she falls for you.
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yup, ive had no success so cant be picky now!
ill sit down with her and have a chat, see what shes looking for and go from there. We havent "done the deed" or anything along those lines so best to sit down and chat before someone gets hurt.
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yup, ive had no success so cant be picky now!
Don't agree with this at all!
Got a blind date setup by my co-workers this Friday. She is 19 (I am 27) and blonde with brown eyes. Two things that make me over think this is, she's apparently curvy (we all know what that means) and she hasn't had much luck with dates cause they didn't like her name?
Is she called Steve?
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