Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Mr.Yellow said:
Give it some time. Don't expect too much too quickly, besides she might be genuinely busy. I'm a **** for replying to text's so she could be as useless as me.

Play the field a bit, have a few on the go and whittle it down gradually.
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Thanks for the support.

To be fair you might be right, she was due to go to a reception and then fly off for a week with her friend to Greece this morning.

I don't know, just doesn't sound quite right but I will see.

Shame because she was a genuinely nice person and seemed interested.

Maybe it was the wine she drank!
 
hmmm, things could be taking their sour turn for me? (as usual)

so past couple of days, feels like im more bothered about the girl i was seeing than she was with me, im always starting conversation or making the effort to speak first, also suggesting to see each other, and even when we speak feels like im making more of an effort, we havent spoke since monday, after a very dull conversation, and currently waiting to see if she initiates , as i dont fancy speaking to her first and having another dull conversation!

even though i like her, i dont want to be with someone or in relationship where im making all the effort.

hmmm reading that back, makes me feel really childish and pathetic......
probably overthinking it! :/
 
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FatFishMonster said:
hmmm, things could be taking their sour turn for me? (as usual)

so past couple of days, feels like im more bothered about the girl i was seeing than she was with me, im always starting conversation or making the effort to speak first, also suggesting to see each other, and even when we speak feels like im making more of an effort, we havent spoke since monday, after a very dull conversation, and currently waiting to see if she initiates , as i dont fancy speaking to her first and having another dull conversation!

even though i like her, i dont want to be with someone or in relationship where im making all the effort.

hmmm reading that back, makes me feel really childish and pathetic......
probably overthinking it! :/
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Doesn't sound right. The start of a relationship should be exciting and fun.
 
holymonk said:
Ok so went on my 2nd date since signing up to POF a week friday.

Turn up at bar 19:30, she turns up, get on really well for 4 hours.

I wasn't drinking, she was, she says she will text me and that she wants to see me again at end of night.

I text her next day, really slow response, but says she had a great time. No reply today.

Really gets on my goat.

I think im done with internet dating after 2 dates, its fkin depressing, and even worse when you feel stringed along.
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Been there done that I can say now is..

YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG..

Don't put your heart and soul into just online dating, just think of it as an addition to regular dating.

By all means come home, browse a bit, write a few off the cuff messages to various people you find interesting, then...

FORGET THE DAMNED WEBSITE EVEN EXISTS..

Get on with your life and check back in after a few days.

Rinse and repeat until you get some bait on the hook. Then and only then should you be even slightly worrying about "the game"
 
There's 3 types of girls when it comes to online dating

1. Those that are desperate to settle down and have a baby.
2. Those that are desperately trying to live some sort of psycho-sexual fantasy from their youth now that they are older. That Italian waiter from the family holiday in Morocco. That hot guy in the family night club in Greece and online dating is a way to try and get over these people.
3. Those that don't know what they want.
 
!bluetonic! said:
There's 3 types of girls when it comes to online dating

1. Those that are desperate to settle down and have a baby.
2. Those that are desperately trying to live some sort of psycho-sexual fantasy from their youth now that they are older. That Italian waiter from the family holiday in Morocco. That hot guy in the family night club in Greece and online dating is a way to try and get over these people.
3. Those that don't know what they want.
4. clubbing whales that hardly fit in a picture frame yet expect to hook up with a hot gyt
5. hot chicks that need attention and normally just mess around for a bit before moving on to the next
6. transvestites :(
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from what i've seen in this thread..
 
!bluetonic! said:
There's 3 types of girls when it comes to online dating

1. Those that are desperate to settle down and have a baby.
2. Those that are desperately trying to live some sort of psycho-sexual fantasy from their youth now that they are older. That Italian waiter from the family holiday in Morocco. That hot guy in the family night club in Greece and online dating is a way to try and get over these people.
3. Those that don't know what they want.
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grudas said:
from what i've seen in this thread..
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You forgot to add. Single mums with kids who had them too young.
 
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