Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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pingwing said:
Yeah I always think the phone number is for on the way to the date, so having one arranged to start with is a good way to get it/get texting to become normal...
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I always ask for the number in order to organise the date. Because I'm generally not going to organise a date unless I have spoken to them on the phone. I've done it twice, and got away with it but it's a bit daft really.

ukpete said:
I met my missus via Tiscali's main chat room about 12-ish years ago, we were both ops in #lobby and #lobby2 by the time we had moved in together :D I was peter27 back then lol
If your only dating for fun then NEVER tell them you love them, they'll start digging the claws into you, be warned.
Oh and 2 women are stressful, 3 are a nightmare. One is best.
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I loved the Tiscali chat rooms. Good times! :D

PS Meeting girl number 11 on Tuesday.
 
Would be interested in a few opinions on what happened to me on Saturday.


Met a girl in a bar, talked to her and her friends for about 30 mins outside, general chat etc, but got the impression she was interested. Later on in the evening me and my friends approached her group on the dancefloor. I ended up being too scared to approach her directly and just sort of stood their dancing awkwardly with my friends. She ended up walking away but then came back right next to us a few mins later, giving me the confidence to actually go for it (as my friend pointed out how obvious it was).

We were dancing and one of the first things she said to me was 'i've got a boyfriend by the way, but that doesn't stop me asking for your number'

Erm....ok...

I've got to be honest i'm not hugely experienced but have never had that happen before. After more dancing she then told me 'I have a girlfriend as well by the way'. I responded obviously with the typical guy response 'oh well i don't mind that!!' as you do.

So the lights come on at closing time and she asks me again for my number.

I was half expecting her to ignore me and the whole number thing was a very polite way to not hurt my feelings, but i've heard from her several times this week.

Would I be right in thinking she probably just wants sex and nothing else, or am I in for a world of hurt taking this any further? Opinions welcome
 
Ste59w said:
Would be interested in a few opinions on what happened to me on Saturday.


Met a girl in a bar, talked to her and her friends for about 30 mins outside, general chat etc, but got the impression she was interested. Later on in the evening me and my friends approached her group on the dancefloor. I ended up being too scared to approach her directly and just sort of stood their dancing awkwardly with my friends. She ended up walking away but then came back right next to us a few mins later, giving me the confidence to actually go for it (as my friend pointed out how obvious it was).

We were dancing and one of the first things she said to me was 'i've got a boyfriend by the way, but that doesn't stop me asking for your number'

Erm....ok...

I've got to be honest i'm not hugely experienced but have never had that happen before. After more dancing she then told me 'I have a girlfriend as well by the way'. I responded obviously with the typical guy response 'oh well i don't mind that!!' as you do.

So the lights come on at closing time and she asks me again for my number.

I was half expecting her to ignore me and the whole number thing was a very polite way to not hurt my feelings, but i've heard from her several times this week.

Would I be right in thinking she probably just wants sex and nothing else, or am I in for a world of hurt taking this any further? Opinions welcome
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Facts:
  • She has a boyfriend
  • She has a boyfriend
  • She has a boyfriend
  • She has a girlfriend?
  • She doesn't know you
  • She is forward

Unless you are Brad Pitt or let slip that you earn as much, or had some super charisma going for you that day, what do you think? :p
 
I don't really know that's why i'm asking :D - I'm assuming you think she's not interested although i'll be honest it's hard to tell what exactly you are saying.

Just 1 boyfriend, hopefully not 3 - although I guess I wouldn't be shocked after the 'i've got a gf too' comment haha. I'm no Brad Pitt that's for sure, I told her I was a soon to be student and my charisma was pretty good i'd say, managed to get her and her 2 friends engaged in conversation by myself for 30 mins.

But it wasn't a friendly meeting in a bar followed by a number exchange - she left her group of friends to be alone to slow dance with me on the dance floor - And she asked for my number.

Confused.
 
Ste59w said:
I don't really know that's why i'm asking :D - I'm assuming you think she's not interested although i'll be honest it's hard to tell what exactly you are saying.

Just 1 boyfriend, hopefully not 3 - although I guess I wouldn't be shocked after the 'i've got a gf too' comment haha. I'm no Brad Pitt that's for sure, I told her I was a soon to be student and my charisma was pretty good i'd say, managed to get her and her 2 friends engaged in conversation by myself for 30 mins.

But it wasn't a friendly meeting in a bar followed by a number exchange - she left her group of friends to be alone to slow dance with me on the dance floor - And she asked for my number.

Clueless.
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Fixed that for you. Sorry,but if you're not savvy enough to know that when a girl tells you she has a boyfriend and asks for your number is wrong'un, then you deserve the grief you are in for.
 
Ste59w said:
Would be interested in a few opinions on what happened to me on Saturday.


Met a girl in a bar, talked to her and her friends for about 30 mins outside, general chat etc, but got the impression she was interested. Later on in the evening me and my friends approached her group on the dancefloor. I ended up being too scared to approach her directly and just sort of stood their dancing awkwardly with my friends. She ended up walking away but then came back right next to us a few mins later, giving me the confidence to actually go for it (as my friend pointed out how obvious it was).

We were dancing and one of the first things she said to me was 'i've got a boyfriend by the way, but that doesn't stop me asking for your number'

Erm....ok...

I've got to be honest i'm not hugely experienced but have never had that happen before. After more dancing she then told me 'I have a girlfriend as well by the way'. I responded obviously with the typical guy response 'oh well i don't mind that!!' as you do.

So the lights come on at closing time and she asks me again for my number.

I was half expecting her to ignore me and the whole number thing was a very polite way to not hurt my feelings, but i've heard from her several times this week.

Would I be right in thinking she probably just wants sex and nothing else, or am I in for a world of hurt taking this any further? Opinions welcome
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Personally I'd of just walked off when she revealed she had a boyfriend, bang out of order tbh, maybe I'm just too empathetic, if she is willing to pull stuff like that with him imagine what it would be like if you were the poor sap she did it to.
 
CosmicClown said:
Personally I'd of just walked off when she revealed she had a boyfriend, bang out of order tbh, maybe I'm just too empathetic, if she is willing to pull stuff like that with him imagine what it would be like if you were the poor sap she did it to.
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This ^^

Also had date with the lady from Leeds. Went really well but she revelead she had been engaged 3 times before which if I'm honest puts me off quite a bit. She's got a very mucky mind though and the second date has already been arranged.

Sheffield girl has been MIA but wants to meet again. I'm pretty sure she's just had a few dates lined up and I've obviously made it through to the next round.

Got 3 others lined up too but I'm starting to get a bit confused between them all don't know how some of you guys do it.
 
She's playing with you, or should that be playing you? I mean, come on, "I have a boyfriend" and then later "I have a girlfriend". This girl may have a boyfriend, she may have a girlfriend, she may have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, or she may have neither. Whatever the case, she's not worth it. A girl who can't be clear up front has personal issues that would make most men run a mile.
 
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