Soldato
So I'm back on POF after seeing someone for 16mths but it didn't work out. Surprise surprise half the women on there are the same ones using the same pictures Some of them actually contain the time/date stamp of 2010 or whatever
It's been nearly a week and I haven't started messaging yet, just looking. Of course I've had the obligatory fat old mampys trying their luck with their blanket messages like: "Hi, fancy a chat?" or "nice profile ".
Yesterday I was deleting pics off my phone and came across a picture of me taken at a wedding earlier this year which my ex had put up on facebook (i'm not a facebooker, though I do have an account). Now, she kept showing me people's comments on this picture saying things like "your bloke is good looking" etc so I decided to use this as my main profile pic. I had numerous "want to meet you" notifications that evening and when I awoke this morning I'd had about half a dozen messages. Admittedly they were nearly all from fat walruses but a couple were from younger, prettier, but still rather chunky girls.
So over the next couple of weeks I'm going to tweak the text, then cast out the dragnet and begin the filtering out process. Quite excited to be getting back on the dating scene as the last 16mths have been frankly rather flat. Plenty of bedroom action but no real spark, thinking back I'm surprised we kept things going as long as we did. Sort of like a job you aren't really happy with but feel obliged to turn up to.
So anyway I'm sure they'll be lots of fruitcakes, I'll be rejected, reject others and so on but at 37 I've got lots of experience to draw upon and am much more confident and happier in my own skin than I was as a young man so looking forward to it all
It's been nearly a week and I haven't started messaging yet, just looking. Of course I've had the obligatory fat old mampys trying their luck with their blanket messages like: "Hi, fancy a chat?" or "nice profile ".
Yesterday I was deleting pics off my phone and came across a picture of me taken at a wedding earlier this year which my ex had put up on facebook (i'm not a facebooker, though I do have an account). Now, she kept showing me people's comments on this picture saying things like "your bloke is good looking" etc so I decided to use this as my main profile pic. I had numerous "want to meet you" notifications that evening and when I awoke this morning I'd had about half a dozen messages. Admittedly they were nearly all from fat walruses but a couple were from younger, prettier, but still rather chunky girls.
So over the next couple of weeks I'm going to tweak the text, then cast out the dragnet and begin the filtering out process. Quite excited to be getting back on the dating scene as the last 16mths have been frankly rather flat. Plenty of bedroom action but no real spark, thinking back I'm surprised we kept things going as long as we did. Sort of like a job you aren't really happy with but feel obliged to turn up to.
So anyway I'm sure they'll be lots of fruitcakes, I'll be rejected, reject others and so on but at 37 I've got lots of experience to draw upon and am much more confident and happier in my own skin than I was as a young man so looking forward to it all