Internet dating is something that takes time and persistence to get right. I am finally enjoying some decent success with a few hotties at the moment.... My advice is that the best darned photo you can take of yourself gets you about 60% of the way there.... The next 30% is your profile and (sorry to pick on Maj here) a profile like Maj's above (in my opinion) just screams 'generic' and I think it's vital to differentiate yourself more (Everyone has something interesting they can say?!). Of course, no offence intended, and if it is working for you, I am glad to hear it, but I found it took a few rewrites/ trial-and-error to get mine working to any decent degree. The final 10% is the message, but I find if you get the first 2 right, the first message matters a whole lot less.