Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I am getting okay at getting some initial replies but I struggle to keep it going on. I end up just chatting like we are mates or summit and I reckon they get bored.

Do you do anything in particular to spark their further interest or do you just chat away generally?

I feel like my friend zone style is transferring in to my online world and it sucks. Who has got some tips?

Just give them some stick (no pun intended :p) don't be too nice!
 
but just a distinct feeling of "Meh"

I was just talking to this girl and in two replies it kind of seems like she is trying to get rid of me. Why reply in the first place? I'm still not sure but I ain't replying to the biatch. :D

Just give them some stick (no pun intended :p) don't be too nice!

Aye I do do that when I can but sometimes they don't leave a lot of opportunity. Might try and focus on that a bit more though.
 
I was just talking to this girl and in two replies it kind of seems like she is trying to get rid of me. Why reply in the first place? I'm still not sure but I ain't replying to the biatch. :D



Aye I do do that when I can but sometimes they don't leave a lot of opportunity. Might try and focus on that a bit more though.

Well to be fair, a friendly reply isn't a bad thing, better than an outright ignore or a rude "I don't like you message" (which, thankfully, I'm yet to get) but yea, some in the first few messages seem quite keen and interested, then for some reason, just decide a short, uninterested reply is all you're worth lol

I tend to try keeping things going, just to see if they're willing to make the effort too, I tend to be the one doing all the legwork in most relationships though >.>
 
I met mine on Smooch, we have been together almost a year and from the first date we just clicked, not to sound too cliche!.

Moved in together and are expected our first child in Aug, we are very happy and have our whole lives together ahead of us, good things can come of the www.dating world!.

Woah, not meaning to come across like a dooche but a kid after "almost a year"? Her true colours wouldn't have shown yet at all, that decision's gonna hurt when the child maintenance requests start coming in.
 
Oh well, I won't be too judgemental, I've got a bit of a belly myself :p As long as she isn't a big sweaty land-whale then that's fine.
 
I hate girls that say they are average when they clearly are not.

Or ones who say their best asset are their boobs because they are HUGE, simply because they are FAT.

Apologies to anyone if you take offence but I am a bit fattist.

Edit: It's mainly a problem because I am a skinny runt. :D
 
I hate girls that say they are average when they clearly are not.

Or ones who say their best asset are their boobs because they are HUGE, simply because they are FAT.

Apologies to anyone if you take offence but I am a bit fattist.

Edit: It's mainly a problem because I am a skinny runt. :D

still, it's better than the ones with massive boobs who say "The first thing people usually notice about me are my eyes/smile" gotta wonder who they're trying to convince:confused:

Also the option of "a little extra" on body type >.<
 
I hate girls that say they are average when they clearly are not.

Or ones who say their best asset are their boobs because they are HUGE, simply because they are FAT.

Apologies to anyone if you take offence but I am a bit fattist.

Edit: It's mainly a problem because I am a skinny runt. :D

Maybe they're just saying that they're "average" for an American ;)

Average for an American is pretty big! :p
 
Maybe they're just saying that they're "average" for an American ;)

Average for an American is pretty big! :p

lol.

see when I was on match i said average purely because I wouldn't say i'm fat, but i wouldn't say i'm skinny. Normally the average is a size 10 which is what i am.

but i did make sure i put a full body shot so that guys knew i wasn't lying :D
 
lol.

see when I was on match i said average purely because I wouldn't say i'm fat, but i wouldn't say i'm skinny. Normally the average is a size 10 which is what i am.

but i did make sure i put a full body shot so that guys knew i wasn't lying :D

I'd say average wasn't 10, more like 12-14.

When I checked your profile out when you put it up (couple of pages back) you definitely didn't look to be of average build :).

I don't get the whole "average" thing any ways, people describe their selves as average (my self included), but who wants to be average any ways? :)
 
Maybe they're just saying that they're "average" for an American ;)

Average for an American is pretty big! :p

Average for a lot of British towns and even friend groups is a lot more like large. Essentially what you're used to becomes average, it's entirely subjective.

Check the tops of the arms in the pics, that's my advice hehe ;)
 
Good point Redman, the word average is entirely subjective; It's based on your own opinion which the majority of us, think less of our selves than perhaps we should.
 
i guess maybe a while ago the average was 10-12 but now it's more like 12-14 so i probably should put my build as skinny. A few people say I am anyway! lol
 
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