Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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would anyone send a follow-up email 3-4 days later or one email and disregard ?

Follow-up to an email that hadn't been replied to? No, I wouldn't do that. If they don't reply they ain't interested. Plus they might get round to replying. I had one 3 days later the other night.
 
Can you not do a fun activity for your third date? Depends on both of your interests.... go to a gig, go karting, zoo? Anything competitive is always good for the banter. Or what about a comedy club? Get creative, don't be scared to suggest something a bit different.

I know she likes go karting but usually that's good fun with a group of people and could it be a bit boring just with 2 of us?

Other thing is she constantly tells me she's lazy which I can't actually believe since she manages to go shopping nearly every week with her mate. That kind of makes me think "Ugggh, so what shall we do then"

Maybe the weather will improve by the weekend so a trip out to somewhere probably is the best idea. Probably not shopping though! :p
 
I find people that say they are crazy are actually boring. Crazy people don't know they are crazy, they just do things because they want to.

Take her bungee jumping, test her nerve
 
but you have to try don't you!


You certainly do, I may not be the voice of experience however I have now learnt that just because I think a girl is really amazing/attractive I shouldn't automatically think that she wouldn't like me.

I remember watching a program once and there were a lot of attractive young ladies who just didn't get any attention from genuine guys. The guys were always too scared to approach them. That meant the women only ever getting approached by overly confident type of guys who more than likely would just mess them about a few months down the line.
 
The girl i've been talking to is going to meet me halfway at lakeside, cafe... shopping, get to talk see how we get on. If we don't then she can shop and i can drive home :p
 
I know she likes go karting but usually that's good fun with a group of people and could it be a bit boring just with 2 of us?

No!! It will be fun and creates a lot of banter whoever wins. Go karting then for a few drinks after and tease her poor driving skills. It's a winner! The build up banter is good too as she will probably think she can beat you. Maybe she will! Is that why you are avoiding it......? :p
 
No!! It will be fun and creates a lot of banter whoever wins. Go karting then for a few drinks after and tease her poor driving skills. It's a winner! The build up banter is good too as she will probably think she can beat you. Maybe she will! Is that why you are avoiding it......? :p

If a girl beat me at Go Karting I would propose there and then :D that's my kinda girl haha

But I agree with the above, its perfectly fine for two of you :)
 
No one will speak to me :(

It's purely online dating mate, You will maybe find the odd one or two who actually will but most of the time it's just an exchange of one liners or people who just want an ego boost.

Send messages out and just be optimistic, I sent around 12 messages on PoF, got 4 replies and they were just polite one liners.
 
Right guys and gals I need your help..

As I mentioned before the only area I seem to struggle with is flirting! I've had two in a row now who have both said they can't read me as I don't flirt. I do all the usual things like decent eye contact, the odd complient along with a couple of arm/hand touches, I listen and respond to whatever they say etc.

However they've both said It's like talking to an old friend rather than someone who wants a relationship!!!!!!!!!

Personally I like to get to know someone first. When I do I flirt like it's going out of fashion but for the first couple of dates I really like to get to know someone.

So.... Help! What flirting do you (boys and girls) do on a first date? I'm really hitting a brick wall at the moment which is costing me!
 
I'm crap at flirting, but sounds like the girls in question are used to guys being more forthright and saucy/cheeky when it comes to flirting.
 
Just start dropping some subtle flirts like.. Hungry? I've got some big sausage at my place.

I am of course jesting, just be more forward.. then they will complain you are too cocky or in their face.. you cant win with women!
 
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