Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I'm exceptionally competent but not very good looking so do i count? Was with someone from 20 - 30. Couple of 6 month relationships since but thats my grand total lol.
 
I'm staying at a girl's house friday for the night, going out for drinks then watching some DVDs (Shaun of the Dead and Hot Fuzz are confirmed!) :D don't have any problems with her when it comes to conversation, she writes me walls of texts frequently on MSN!

Edit: Ooh forgot also having a day around London mooching around in the arcades and having a meal for my birthday. :) Next week!
 
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kenmare said:
Totally personal questions, but y'all seem to be pretty competant/good looking etc. How come you are in your thirties and looking for someone? Did it just never happen in your twenties? :o
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Saving up for a 3d vision kit+monitor combo :D

In all honesty, outside 9-5 working hours, I'm quite dead to the world and just want to chill so never got 'round to it. Now I'm too old and cranky. Only the other day I shouted at some kids to get off my lawn.
 
Well Today went really well up until we departed.

Went to see Attack on the block, after about an hour I put my arm around her which progressed to some making out. Felt really good. held hands around town, sat and talked.

Then when we went to the station to leave I went in for a goodbye kiss and totally ballsed it up.. I feel like a complete idiot atm.

Should I message her to say sorry? or would that be completely innapropriate?

Cheers
 
secretspy said:
We are seeing a film then going for a drink afterwards.
I know most people will say the cinema is the worst thing for a first date but he said "perhaps a drink and something else" I asked friends what was about and all they said was cinema. He's happy with it though, it's a short film so we have plenty of time to go for a drink afterwards and it gives us something else to talk about :)

I didn't really fancy dinner and a drink because (and I know this sounds silly) I get quite self conscious eating in front of people and I'll already be really nervous as it is lol (plus I can't really afford it.)

I don't want to look too overdressed for it but I want to look nice at the same time lol :p

Was thinking of wearing what I wore to the London meet (don't worry I've washed it all again) but didn't know if that was too dressy lol. Argh! Guys have it so easy!
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Got to check my favourite lucky boxers are clean and ready to go, get my shirt ironed, give my addidas the wipe down, find my Branson jacket, check emails, fix hair, get manfumes going!

See! We have a long list! Yours is: Cleavage? Yes, ready to mingle! :p
 
secretspy said:
It is lol. Maybe reply and say "I take it that's a yes? :p" and ask her a few questions. She might be completely different in person



How did you mess it up? :confused: How did she react afterwards?
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She turned her cheek, so I turned it into a cheek kiss and a hug, but when she said bye I could hear her nerves.

I just feel like a complete idiot atm, I sent her a text saying I enjoyed my day with her but no reply yet :|. (but she doesn't use her phone much so could just be that she feels a bit distressed or soemthing).
 
heres a random question

if a woman says she doesnt fancy you but gets extremely turned on by your saucy talk and by you saying you fancy her etc. whats the deal just a tease?
 
she says im attractive but doesnt want a relationship and she has dreams about me. (she thinks we wouldnt be compatible - she over analyses stuff to death)

she wants FWB ? :D
 
ScarySquirrel said:
I was drunk one night, and a friend told me that if I applied I get 3 dates, 3 free meals, and I just pick my favourite. So I applied whilst still drunk, then found out I was to be a host, and I didn't have the heart to pull out as my friends were all really excited about it.
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Keep us updated! :D
 
Sinny said:
She turned her cheek, so I turned it into a cheek kiss and a hug, but when she said bye I could hear her nerves.

I just feel like a complete idiot atm, I sent her a text saying I enjoyed my day with her but no reply yet :|. (but she doesn't use her phone much so could just be that she feels a bit distressed or soemthing).
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Did she seem keen in the cinema? It might just be that in the darkness of the cinema she felt confident then out in the open she felt shy again. Try not to read into it too much.
you never know maybe she suddenly had the feeling that she needed to burp so quickly turned her cheek :D (sorry I'm in a funny mood tonight!)

Surfer said:
she says im attractive but doesnt want a relationship and she has dreams about me. (she thinks we wouldnt be compatible - she over analyses stuff to death)

she wants FWB ? :D
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What's an FWB? I know what FB is :p I'd say walk away! One minute she's saying she doesn't fancy you then says you're attractive :confused: Weird....
 
friends with benefits ;) She is pretty shy. I think she wants to bone me but doesnt want the complications of a relationship... speaking to her tonight might breach the subject see how it goes..... haha
 
secretspy said:
Did she seem keen in the cinema? It might just be that in the darkness of the cinema she felt confident then out in the open she felt shy again. Try not to read into it too much.
you never know maybe she suddenly had the feeling that she needed to burp so quickly turned her cheek :D (sorry I'm in a funny mood tonight!)
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No worries I can take a joke even when I feel slightly depressed lol.

Well She seems keen, I put my arm around her but she made the move to me (though I was really nervous), then throughout the film we were cuddled up. we held hands afterwards and she felt comfortable afterwards.

It was just as we were basically leaving, I shouldn't have done it in hindsight now. but hindsight is useless to me now lol.
 
If she cuddled etc in the cinema I don't see how things could suddenly change. Just see how it goes. I'm sure it's all fine and you're fretting about nothing :)
 
Was it a first date? perhaps she regretted making out etc so soon, or didn't want to seem like she was a **** and backed off, women are crazy like that :P Even if they want to do something, they worry how it might look etc.
 
kenmare said:
Totally personal questions, but y'all seem to be pretty competant/good looking etc. How come you are in your thirties and looking for someone? Did it just never happen in your twenties? :o
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Honest answer. I spent most of my early twenties (20 - 24) in serious relationships (both 2 years plus) then I ended up single just before I turned 25 after the last one ran off with someone else. Then I fell in love with someone I couldn't have, and it was only the last year or two that i've managed to get over him to the point where I can move on. I've had the odd "special friend" in that time, but nothing serious.

I've also got a pretty busy life, and you get stuck in your ways of having that life, and not having anyone to share it with. When my sister got married last year it hit me that I needed to sort my life out and if I wanted to settle down like I kept saying I wanted to, then only I had the power to change that. Hence why im trying now :)
 
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