I meant to imply her lack of communication
In my experience, most are "fishing" (clue's in the name) and unless you seriously rings someone's bell 85% visually, 15% with your profile then you won't get anything from it. I've had great communication until things get personal and they realise you don't have a 5-bed house in the country or an internet penis.
Anyway, the best connections are made in person. If two people visually connect, they'll connect. If there's an environmental factor in common such as kids, dogs, hobby etc then it really does go from there.
Hate to say it but y'all need to get out more. Expect nothing from PoF but if something does come from it; bonus.
Oh I get out plenty and put less faith in this online dating thing than I may have let on in the past. I may have a date tomorrow night with a girl I started talking to yesterday and if this blows up in my face and leaves me covered in proverbial faeces, I won't spend a single minute longer on Match as there's literally no point paying to go around wrestling your way through trash cans in the hope to find a diamond.
You'd think people would take Match slightly more serious since you're paying good money for the service, but you'd be wrong. Anyway, no harm done. Was an interesting experience all together and one I glad I did. Had fun dates and almost met someone for the long term.