Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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pingwing said:
PICNIC!!!
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Aye that really was a good idea! I also thought of the Zoo seeing as I live in chester, but I'm going to have to mull it over.

If only she had a Skateboard :D, shame you can't hire them.

edit - Just thought the weather is terrible currently so I need a backup plan in case things turn sour!
 
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Sinny said:
Aye that really was a good idea! I also thought of the Zoo seeing as I live in chester, but I'm going to have to mull it over.

If only she had a Skateboard :D, shame you can't hire them.

edit - Just thought the weather is terrible currently so I need a backup plan in case things turn sour!
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:D bring tasty food (no wang sandwich jokes...) as I'm adamant girls like men who can cook/provide food for them

Other cool experience girls only like skate boards if you are good on them or you hold them whilst they are on it... Option two is a real winner ;)
 
pingwing said:
:D bring tasty food (no wang sandwich jokes...) as I'm adamant girls like men who can cook/provide food for them

Other cool experience girls only like skate boards if you are good on them or you hold them whilst they are on it... Option two is a real winner ;)
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Might do the picnic idea, I just thought because it's been raining things might go a bit crap.

as for the skateboarding, I go all the time to my local skatepark as it's healthy and mega cheap for a few hours, she is very sporty (someone to kick me up the bum really), so I can teach her how to do it but if she fell and hurt herself I'd probably cry haha (a lot of people injure their back on skateboards).
 
The backs the one thing I never got on my board, arms and legs though don't look quite the same... Im sure giving her a go at sports your good at will be fun :)

Picnic only needs as good a weather as skating anyway... And if it gets bad picnic under cover ;)
 
Rossuk89 said:
Started talking to this girl from POF about 2 months ago. Talked a lot for about a week. Then she said she thinks it's weird so asked to stop talking. 2 weeks later out of nowhere she says she's been thinking about it and realises she's being silly about it and wants to start talking. 3 days later we meet for a date. It goes great, we talk for about 3 hours in Starbucks then go to the cinema, then we kissed and said goodbye. Few days later she comes round mine for a few hours. She then comes the following day and stays the night, I cook her dinner ect.

We decide to make it official and be together. We see eachother 3 times a week for 3 weeks, have a lot of good time together. Then last Wed out of nowhere she breaks up with me saying she's not ready for a relationship. Was a bit shocked and hurt as I was developing strong feelings for her. We meet up a few days after she broke up with me to discuss and clear the air. She starts cuddling and hugging me like normal. The evening goes rather well despite the fact she broke up with me. Then yesterday (about a week after she broke up with me). She says she doesn't want to be friends and she wants us both to forget eachother and move on. Now she has blocked me on facebook and wants us to stop talking completely!

Still a bit shocked but oh well life goes on I guess! Women are far too complicated..
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Damn dude sorry to hear that, they can be compicated I second that. Dont let this one play you though - no matter how hot she is. Move on and dont waste time on her. She kinda treated you like a doormat TBH.
 
Rossuk89 said:
Still a bit shocked but oh well life goes on I guess! Women are far too complicated..
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They're all nuts mate. I've been on 3 dates with a really nice, pretty girl I met on PoF, been chatting daily via text, email and phone, and the three dates we had involved of kissing, cuddling and hand holding. That was up until last Sun eve when she for no reason just stopped talking to me! Sent her an email earlier in the week to see how she was doing, text mid-week and phoned her on Fri but it rang through to VM - not heard a peep!

A bit miffed as I kinda liked her, expected her to show a bit more respect if she's changed her mind.
 
KatanaDV20 said:
Damn dude sorry to hear that, they can be compicated I second that. Dont let this one play you though - no matter how hot she is. Move on and dont waste time on her. She kinda treated you like a doormat TBH.
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Cheers mate. I'm over it don't worry, realised there's no point getting down over this. I'm taking this as another learning experience to be honest. Only thing that was good about the break up is that it happened before I had strong feelings for her.

I know it's a bit arrogant to say but I've also realised that I can do a lot better than her and she wasn't as amazing as I thought she was. Now that I've realised this it's been 100% easier to forget about her!

Even though it was nice having a girlfriend and someone to spend time with, I'm actually enjoying the freedom I had before being single, I can go out with my mates and actually enjoy myself, when we went out on the night it was a bit boring watching my friends have fun with girls and I couldn't do anything haha! Plus I have more free time which is good haha.
 
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Big Chris said:
They're all nuts mate. I've been on 3 dates with a really nice, pretty girl I met on PoF, been chatting daily via text, email and phone, and the three dates we had involved of kissing, cuddling and hand holding. That was up until last Sun eve when she for no reason just stopped talking to me! Sent her an email earlier in the week to see how she was doing, text mid-week and phoned her on Fri but it rang through to VM - not heard a peep!

A bit miffed as I kinda liked her, expected her to show a bit more respect if she's changed her mind.
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That sucks mate. I honestly thought I would be good at reading women but nope, they're a complete mystery and always will be I think! They think differently to guys, who knows what goes on in their minds!

So that girl you were seeing has completely stopped contacting you then? Did she even explain why? I don't understand why girls can't be straight forward, if she wasn't really feeling it or into you then she should have at least have the respect to tell you that so you can move on instead of leaving you in the dark. It can be very frustrating when that happens.
 
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Big Chris said:
They're all nuts mate. I've been on 3 dates with a really nice, pretty girl I met on PoF, been chatting daily via text, email and phone, and the three dates we had involved of kissing, cuddling and hand holding. That was up until last Sun eve when she for no reason just stopped talking to me! Sent her an email earlier in the week to see how she was doing, text mid-week and phoned her on Fri but it rang through to VM - not heard a peep!

A bit miffed as I kinda liked her, expected her to show a bit more respect if she's changed her mind.
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Generalising a little don't you think?
I could say that all men are crazy. My ex boyfriend dumped me for no apparent reason, started being a complete and utter **** about it and then made up some BS that he "still loves me" and he "misses me" and he "thinks about me everyday".
Yup, ALL men are crazy.
 
Rossuk89 said:
So that girl you were seeing has completely stopped contacting you then? Did she even explain why? I don't understand why girls can't be straight forward, if she wasn't really feeling it or into you then she should have at least have the respect to tell you that so you can move on instead of leaving you in the dark. It can be very frustrating when that happens.
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Not a word, really unexpected as she seemed really keen and there was no indication whatsoever that she'd changed her mind. Last time I spoke to her we were chatting about what to do at the weekend.

She's been back on PoF in the last few days so I guess she just had second thoughts, not impressed with the way she went about it though :(
 
I agree with Kaffe. Little unfair to generalise it and say we are all nuts and all complicated.

I know what I want and I'm not afraid to go after it. I just seem to keep meeting men who don't have the balls to work out what they want before getting involved with a girl and then not even having the decency to say straight away that they're not interested anymore.

Even though on the outside I'm always saying I give up deep down I still hope that there is one guy out there who does have a pair and isn't a coward. But hey, maybe that's why all of us girls are nuts, because we still think there are decent men out there :rolleyes: :p
(and yes I am just jesting on that last part, I know there are a few decent guys)

I've been doing a bit of thinking about the recent guy who (after I asked) finally admitted he was being distant because he didn't think it would work long term. He kept making excuses saying certain things reminded him of his ex and wouldn't really listen when I said it was unfair to tar me with the same brush and judge me when he barely knows me.
He made me feel really crap about myself BUT.....I've realised I'm being stupid. It's not me who's got the problem. It's him. If he can't accept me for how I am and accept that I'm a different person, not his ex than that's his issue.

Am still yet to have a second date with the new guy. I didn't feel the spark but after having another read of his profile, I do really want to see him again so who knows!
 
I dont think anyone REALLY means it when they say "Women are nuts" or when a woman says "Men are nuts".

Those statements come from being hurt & a feeling of being let down. We all know deep inside that when we say those things we dont really mean them. They are only directed at the girl/guy who hurt us in some way. Because around the next corner could be *the one* you are after...so none of us should clam up.

Just had to throw this in here to make things clear :) Both sexes have their share of losers!

Even though it was nice having a girlfriend and someone to spend time with, I'm actually enjoying the freedom I had before being single, I can go out with my mates and actually enjoy myself, when we went out on the night it was a bit boring watching my friends have fun with girls and I couldn't do anything haha! Plus I have more free time which is good haha.
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Thats good. Dont give her the pleasure of seein ya down. Get on with your life!

I split with wife 2 yrs ago and initially it was tough but now...yes a sense of freedom to do what I want whenever I want :). But I gotta admit, a part of me is ready to jump back in to dating haha.
 
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secretspy said:
I agree with Kaffe. Little unfair to generalise it and say we are all nuts and all complicated.

I know what I want and I'm not afraid to go after it. I just seem to keep meeting men who don't have the balls to work out what they want before getting involved with a girl and then not even having the decency to say straight away that they're not interested anymore.
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.Lethal said:
That last bit I quoted contradicts a few posts you've made in this thread.
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You quite clearly didn't understand what she meant...
 
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