Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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nero120 said:
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I have only asked girls out where there is chemistry, etc otherwise it is a waste of time.

IMO only visit the place again if you have 'moved on' otherwise you'll start thinking about her 'in that way' if you see her again.

Aleksandrs said:
I'm planning to move to Korea within the next couple of years so I think I'm gonna have to revert back to talking to a girl face to face to get to know them, not sure how that's going to go down really ;D
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Obv you have to learn some Korean before you go out there. If you're the shy type, then you've got to start talking to more girls here to get better.
 
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bainbridge said:
2 months ago I'd had enough of the mentalists on POF & deleted my account, but being a glutton for punishment
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bainbridge said:
There was other stuff too, she had 3 kids by 2 different dads & was clearly in denial over many of her responsibilities.
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You seem the attract the crazy ones :D

MadMossy said:
Can't say I've had much luck on pof over 30 messages sent and only 1 reply, and one random message from a fat chick.
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My post might help you.

http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showpost.php?p=20592748&postcount=10325
 
Not had much luck either on there either, i thought i might have at least struck up a few interesting conversations, i get the feeling girls get bombarded on there to be honest!
 
bainbridge said:
As I clearly said in my post I gave it an hour then rang again, when she didn't answer & I found her on POF was I hasty? NO! Been there, done that, didn't bother getting the T-shirt :p

Don't mean to be rude dude, but what would you have done? Put yourself on a string by showing patience & tolerance? With someone you've had sex with the day after you first met? We both set out our stalls clearly & I'm quite proud of the way I kept my cool & calmly said goodbye. The fact her front door had a smashed pane & had been taped up led me to believe she had a habit of starting things but not finishing them! There was other stuff too, she had 3 kids by 2 different dads & was clearly in denial over many of her responsibilities.



What were you saying about not meaning to be rude?
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Good riddance to be honest. Be happy you were used and move on.
 
I got quite a few messages but they were all from fat ugly manatees. Never conversed with anyone decent. Found someone now anyway who I met in person. Totally crazy about her and I haven't even slept with her yet!
 
Anyway, my time for a dilemma!

I've had about 9 dates or so with this one girl, been seeing her for over a month now and it seems that she has some issues from her past partner being abuse or what have you. Now we get on great, she is really attractive and always have something to chat about, texting each other loads, lots of laughs etc

But when we get intimate she kinda freaks out and says she can't do it, we have slept in the same bed like 4 times or so and we still haven't consummated the relationship, lots of kissing and petting but not even any foreplay.

I told her straight that I like her etc but she is a bit distant and admits that she is a bit strange as I am the first guy she has 'seen' since her ex.

As much as i like her, I just can't see it going anywhere? not sure what to do.
 
I think it depends what she means by that comment.

If it's because she is just nervous as she hasn't been with someone new in a long time. Then that's not so bad. Maybe she has some body issues?

If it's because she is still thinking about her ex and isn't over that relationship then it's a bit different.

I would not expect to have sex within the first month of seeing someone. If she is that great then she is worth the wait surely?
 
theDude said:
Anyway, my time for a dilemma!

I've had about 9 dates or so with this one girl, been seeing her for over a month now and it seems that she has some issues from her past partner being abuse or what have you. Now we get on great, she is really attractive and always have something to chat about, texting each other loads, lots of laughs etc

But when we get intimate she kinda freaks out and says she can't do it, we have slept in the same bed like 4 times or so and we still haven't consummated the relationship, lots of kissing and petting but not even any foreplay.

I told her straight that I like her etc but she is a bit distant and admits that she is a bit strange as I am the first guy she has 'seen' since her ex.

As much as i like her, I just can't see it going anywhere? not sure what to do.
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I'd give that one a miss tbh. Move on. Sounds like you have no problems talking to girls ect so I'd just carry on until you find that special someone. Have some fun along the way though of course ;)



Just my opinion.
 
theDude said:
Anyway, my time for a dilemma!

I've had about 9 dates or so with this one girl, been seeing her for over a month now and it seems that she has some issues from her past partner being abuse or what have you. Now we get on great, she is really attractive and always have something to chat about, texting each other loads, lots of laughs etc

But when we get intimate she kinda freaks out and says she can't do it, we have slept in the same bed like 4 times or so and we still haven't consummated the relationship, lots of kissing and petting but not even any foreplay.

I told her straight that I like her etc but she is a bit distant and admits that she is a bit strange as I am the first guy she has 'seen' since her ex.

As much as i like her, I just can't see it going anywhere? not sure what to do.
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Get rid, I was in the same situation myself not long ago, she has issues and chances are she hasnt slept with you yet because to her you just a distraction from the crap in her head.
 
Arranged a date with a friend of a friend last week but she had to cancel through events that where out of her control thats cool, I asked her if she wanted to rearrange to which I got back

"I'd love to! xxx"

So Asked her if she was free next week (this week), I then got

"Erm I'll have to let you know"

Now nothing.....Really like this girl! Pretty, witty good laugh, caring the whole package so I would like to know if there is anything there, My question is this,

Think I should ask for another date to meet up? Or is the "ill have to get back to you" a bit of a brush off?

Recently Ive been much more confident with the ladies, gone for a few drinks with a few people but no real spark has come about...suddenly this one has me feeling all nervous again.....damn it.
 
DiCe! said:
Arranged a date with a friend of a friend last week but she had to cancel through events that where out of her control thats cool, I asked her if she wanted to rearrange to which I got back

"I'd love to! xxx"

So Asked her if she was free next week (this week), I then got

"Erm I'll have to let you know"

Now nothing.....Really like this girl! Pretty, witty good laugh, caring the whole package so I would like to know if there is anything there, My question is this,

Think I should ask for another date to meet up? Or is the "ill have to get back to you" a bit of a brush off?

Recently Ive been much more confident with the ladies, gone for a few drinks with a few people but no real spark has come about...suddenly this one has me feeling all nervous again.....damn it.
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One bit of advice.. don't get your hopes up and stop thinking about her so much. If she chooses to avoid you then it's her loss. Move on mate. Women can change their minds as quick as the wind changes. One minute it can be going perfect and the next she don't want nothing to do with you. It's just the way it goes I guess. I'll never understand them.

If you do get a date with her, then make sure you knock a couple out before. You should'nt feel so nervous and loved up then.
Good luck.
 
Toxic Babyface said:
One bit of advice.. don't get your hopes up and stop thinking about her so much. If she chooses to avoid you then it's her loss. Move on mate. Women can change their minds as quick as the wind changes. One minute it can be going perfect and the next she don't want nothing to do with you. It's just the way it goes I guess. I'll never understand them.

If you do get a date with her, then make sure you knock a couple out before. You should'nt feel so nervous and loved up then.
Good luck.
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Indeed, been stung that way before, which is why im trying to play it cool and not get the butterflies lol
 
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