They are awesomeWhat are girls like between 24 - 30ish?

They are awesomeWhat are girls like between 24 - 30ish?
Yeah I haven't made any contact with her. I can only hope as I get older the girls become more mature or serious. At 22 girls aren't looking too appealing for relationships.
What are girls like between 24 - 30ish?
At 22 girls aren't looking too appealing for relationships.
What are girls like between 24 - 30ish?
Having such a hard time with finding an actual decent girl. Terrible luck on POF, hardly get any replies and if they reply saying they want to talk..they never reply back the next day, don't get that???
I went on a date almost 2 weeks ago with this great girl. She text and called me quite a lot up to the date. Then basically half way through the date she tells me she doesn't find me massively attractive and just wants to be friends as she doesn't think she'll like me more than that. I honestly wanted to leave at that point..
Weird thing is she was showing signs of flirting and we were talking for 2/3 hours none stop about anything. I was making her laugh a lot, she kept giving me compliments about how funny, interesting and sweet I was. So I thought it was going somewhere until she told me she doesn't fancy me..
But then she offered to go to Nando's and pay so I glady accepted even though I didn't want to be there anymore..who am I to deny free chicken? lol
But yeah definitely incredibly depressing, I thought this girl was different. She is a nice girl and everything but she hasn't contacted me since the date even though she was worried and told me not to delete her off FB and ignore her texts/calls..I was like I won't..but has she contacted me since? Nope..
Girls liking me comes rarely so I probably get my hopes up everytime I remotely come close to dating a girl. Then get dropped like a tonne of bricks then I go into depression mode.
Girls in my generation are for the most part..unstable or confused about what they want. They don't know what they want!!! They all want a perfect 10/10 guy who's tall, good looking and rich..
There are also only a few girls who are actually decent from what I've seen. The majority of girls are chavs, overweight, stupid, slutty, arrogant etc..
Ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls liking me comes rarely so I probably get my hopes up everytime I remotely come close to dating a girl. Then get dropped like a tonne of bricks then I go into depression mode.
Ok. I have a profile sorted on POF, and I have re-instated the one on OKCupid.
Can you guys take a quick look over both? And see which works better etc? (They are both different)
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=35532738
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Tican
Also, as it has been, what nearly a year and a half , since I have used them... Any tips for the first message of what to send?![]()
just make sure you read their profile first before you write a message, try and acknowledge some of the stuff they have written and show interest in it / connection with your interests.
keep it to a paragraph, don't write more than 2 paragraphs at most, don't give them too much information just because they said HI back and showed some interest, you'll waste time and you'll have said everything there is to say before the conversation stagnates.
One woman was talking to me fine, then I corrected a spelling mistake and because I sent her 3 messages in a row she got freaked out and she blocked me - OOPS - wish I hadn't done that, I came on too strong or a bit OCD I think.
don't just say HI and nothing else its boring
don't come out with cliché's - ask random questions that catch them by suprise
don't use daft pictures, show one's that genuinely shows your fully body and face....
Perhaps drop the bit about trolling "METUL" heads on forums, can't imagine many girls will see that as a bonus
Perhaps drop the bit about trolling "METUL" heads on forums, can't imagine many girls will see that as a bonus(although it does sound like fun coming from an elitist metal fan
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Fair enough, but I doubt many girls will know what trolling forums means, and when you tell them it'll likely bring about a swift end to your conversation!That was in there as a kinda joke.
Fair enough, but I doubt many girls will know what trolling forums means, and when you tell them it'll likely bring about a swift end to your conversation!
after 4500 messages sent over 3 ish months my lady friend is still a friend. discuss
So I have had one reply so far "Sorry. Not interested, good luck" :/