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Wow guys, topping up someones phone over the Internet and you don't even know them oh my gosh get a grip? It may be a mans phone your topping up.
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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LOL.
So earlier I was just messaging a few chicks on POF. Out of nowhere, one of them sends me a message on Facebook - I was creped out at first! Turns out that she was in the year above me at school and recognised me. Small world! We're hopefully going to make arrangements for drinks and a catch up next week
So earlier I was just messaging a few chicks on POF. Out of nowhere, one of them sends me a message on Facebook - I was creped out at first! Turns out that she was in the year above me at school and recognised me. Small world! We're hopefully going to make arrangements for drinks and a catch up next week
So at what point would you guys consider telling one girl you seeing another girl...?
I just got back from a second date that went fantastically (and organised to meet up again very soon) but have a second date with a girl tomorrow... Wondering if I should go on it or not, just in case the third date with the first girl goes badly (which I don't forsee).
I just got back from a second date that went fantastically (and organised to meet up again very soon) but have a second date with a girl tomorrow... Wondering if I should go on it or not, just in case the third date with the first girl goes badly (which I don't forsee).
come out of a relationship bout 2-3 weeks ago, messed with my head but ive really surprised myself how much ive healed and become myself again. ive never been a believer in this stuff, but i might sign up for the laugh, in hind site my last 3 long term relationships were through facebook/myspace. not looking for anything serious. i think this is a much better way to find someone compatible as opposed to fb too as you get to see a lot of their interests. lets see if being ginger has its downfalls haa
very tempted to try this, not had a lot of luck recently, it dosnt help that i move about a lot, spend a hell of a lot of time away from camp/home, which can be very frustrating.
not after anything serious, but not really got anything to loose as it were.
just got to overcome one very important factor... pride!
not after anything serious, but not really got anything to loose as it were.
just got to overcome one very important factor... pride!
But what do you mean "works out"
A kiss, a proper kiss, sex, girlfriend, marriage?
Not suggesting it has worked out yet, just thinking about what I would feel in the situation, from the side of the person potentially being led on (second girl) or the "other half" after finding out out I had been dating some one for a month or two at the same time.
Anyway I ended up not going out tonight with the second girl anyway, I text her back too late so we're organising another time. I'm not really that bothered either way in some ways, she's cool but not necessarily Girlfriend material for me.
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But what do you mean "works out"
A kiss, a proper kiss, sex, girlfriend, marriage?
Not suggesting it has worked out yet, just thinking about what I would feel in the situation, from the side of the person potentially being led on (second girl) or the "other half" after finding out out I had been dating some one for a month or two at the same time.
Anyway I ended up not going out tonight with the second girl anyway, I text her back to late so we're organising another time. I'm not really that bothered either way in some ways, she's cool but not necessarily Girlfriend material for me.
When you both get to the point of saying "So I guess we're going out now then?"
Getting pretty bummed out by this at the moment, the last girl i met online was cool, but then it just fizzed out, since then, nothings been hooking, trying all sorts of tactics but nothings paying off, still, im not one to give up...
Anyone got any other sites to try apart from pof and okc?
Anyone got any other sites to try apart from pof and okc?
theres even a fine line with this, etiquette is one thing and being a gentlemen i get
but were all equal and i think yeah you buy her a drink and cinema maybe bowling, but then its equal, never been a problem for me,
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Sgned up for OKCupid a couple of weeks ago and within 2 days I had 3 messages from 3 different gals all very pretty ladies who I have been constantly messaging up until mid week! Was just about to cememnt a date with all 3 when one decided to suddenly ignore me for no reason at all, one decided to go totally nuts because I asked if she had Facebook and the other one suddenly deleted her account despite being the most keen!?
Not a big deal really, but makes you think why bother if the women on these sites are total weirdos just like the typical stereotype internet dating has!
Not a big deal really, but makes you think why bother if the women on these sites are total weirdos just like the typical stereotype internet dating has!
It's a woman dating thing they love the attention then run a mile when it comes to the date
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Ok, I've decided I want a girlfriend now and I think my POF profile sucks. How can I fix this?
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=26937895
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=26937895
The girlfriend and I met on pof. She had a look at your profile and here's what she thought:
*Putting "Date but nothing serious" can put women off.
*What does mma and bjj mean?
*Your profile is very short and does not stand out.
*"banter" is used at the pub with your mates.
*"hangout" in the for section sounds like your looking for a one time thing.
Matt
How do you message girls that have very little to say about themselves in profile?, for example
Swimming, reading, shopping
That's all she has, or do you only go for profiles that stand out with the same interests?. This girl looks nice my type, but not a lot to go on
Swimming, reading, shopping
That's all she has, or do you only go for profiles that stand out with the same interests?. This girl looks nice my type
, but not a lot to go on
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Hi I'm an OkCupid user.
So I added a girl to my favourites on my phone so I could message her on the PC once I'd got home, as the app keeps crashing on my phone.
When I got home I had a message from her
"Hello sweetheart x u ok".
Thought the Sweetheart was a bit funny, but oh well. I messaged her back. Asking about her interest and stuff, to which I get this reply.
"Hi Dan
Here is my mobile number 07*********, saves ur phone crashing on the Internet
I have been to Venice, Egypt, and Africa
Love you hear from you x"
Is this a little full on, giving me her number, a complete stranger, after one message.
What do you think?
Avoid or Roll with it? (she is pretty)
So I added a girl to my favourites on my phone so I could message her on the PC once I'd got home, as the app keeps crashing on my phone.
When I got home I had a message from her
"Hello sweetheart x u ok".
Thought the Sweetheart was a bit funny, but oh well. I messaged her back. Asking about her interest and stuff, to which I get this reply.
"Hi Dan
Here is my mobile number 07*********, saves ur phone crashing on the Internet
I have been to Venice, Egypt, and Africa
Love you hear from you x"
Is this a little full on, giving me her number, a complete stranger, after one message.
What do you think?
Avoid or Roll with it? (she is pretty)
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How do you message girls that have very little to say about themselves in profile?, for example
Love to go out and love to stay in. Love to read, watch TV and socialise with friends. Love to shop and listen to music all the time. I try to keep up to date with music but always go back to those 90's tunes. Im a down to earth girl who says exactly whats she means and takes every day as it comes. I am shy at first but my confidence comes around the right person. I love TLC and will always give it back.
Swimming, reading, shopping
That's all she has, or do you only go for profiles that stand out with the same interests?. This girl looks nice my type
I just usually ask them about the place where they live, maybe ask about what particular TV she likes. Anything really to get the chat going.
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