Monogomy?

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 14:22

Nix said:
Ignore these ladies, they obviously don't own a penis

*Dons flame hat*

Right you are, brother!

McDaniel · 5 May 2006 at 14:22

nero120 said:
I love the accusations! Listen, just because I am honest with myself and try to think about the urges I feel or the thoughts I think in no way means I am 'looking for an excuse to leave her'. I think every man has sexual urges and is a lier if he say otherwise, so don't be so god-damned pious! This is a discussion, if I wanted to do it I would have done it already. I simply wanted to see how other people deal with these sexual urges, how many hold them back and how many give into them. Maybe it is you who is having second-thoughts, oh righteous one?

When i was with my girlfriend i may have thought yea shes fit, but thats as far as it went, i never rally thought anymore of it.

The best way to deal with it, is just to ignore it and give the missus a good one

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 14:28

McDaniel said:
When i was with my girlfriend i may have thought yea shes fit, but thats as far as it went, i never rally thought anymore of it.

The best way to deal with it, is just to ignore it and give the missus a good one

Of course, the urges are only the sexual tension talking, they have no distinction over who is your gf and who is not. All they see is boobs and legs and butts and think "GO"! But the mind cuts in and says woah there partner, who are commited. So then you either choose to go with the urges or the mind. Either way, once you have dropped off the package, your mind regains control and Id imagine if you went with the urges youd feel pretty crap! If you either went with your girl or beat the meat you would feel better that you didnt cheat!

WantoN · 5 May 2006 at 14:32

Sex with the person you love will always be far better than the some fling. If ysaid thoughts were either intense, or occurring regularly, I'd say you're with the wrong person.

There is no greater emotional betrayal that cheating on someone you profess to love. It's absolutely disgusting.

As to my stance on dealing with it. Well, at the end of the day, we're all going to spot a fitty a decide whether or not we want a peice, but for me, that fleeting thought is as far as it goes. no one turns me on like my missus, and no one is more special to me. I wouldn't jeapordise her feelings nor the trust we share just to pump gas at a different station.

Ant :cool:

Otacon · 5 May 2006 at 14:35

How old are you?

Sparky__H · 5 May 2006 at 14:37

You’re walking along with the girlfriend and it’s a hot balmy day in the middle of summer. There’s a high pollen count and the air is almost dancing in the yellow heat as you stumble along lucid and calm. You come to a long street and begin to walk unsure of your destination due to the sun, pollen and these heavy metal boots your shoes have become.

You notice a girl walking towards you from the other direction…

She must be 17/18 and is wearing a low cut tight, almost see through shirt with a short dress well above the knee line. Long elegant legs glistening in the sun….

The would goes quiet, the colour fades and the universe dissolves into a tunnel as your brain blocks out everything unnecessary. All that exists in this tunnel is you, her and those beautiful long elegant legs. You slowly slip into a conscious dream..

You hear a voice that’s familiar and suddenly the world around you starts to filter back into your senses, you look towards the source of the noise and realise that the sauce of the noise is a person. This person’s face slowly becomes more recognisable and finally you remember it’s the face of your girlfriend…

…and she has that face you’ve grown to fear…

….And you don’t get any for the next two weeks…

Rich_L · 5 May 2006 at 14:38

That would be your own fault for not wearing mirrored sunglasses to hide your gaze.

Elementary summer tactics!

I know what you mean though nero120, since when did being with someone kill your 'fancy a piece of that' drive?! Nothing wrong with thinking 'phwoar' if you're going out with someone, it's the same twisted logic that makes girls think it's ok to be angry if you read FHM while you're going out with them.

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 14:40

WantoN said:
Sex with the person you love will always be far better than the some fling. If ysaid thoughts were either intense, or occurring regularly, I'd say you're with the wrong person.

There is no greater emotional betrayal that cheating on someone you profess to love. It's absolutely disgusting.

As to my stance on dealing with it. Well, at the end of the day, we're all going to spot a fitty a decide whether or not we want a peice, but for me, that fleeting thought is as far as it goes. no one turns me on like my missus, and no one is more special to me. I wouldn't jeapordise her feelings nor the trust we share just to pump gas at a different station.

Ant

For the record, I agree. So don't get so defensive everyone, don't worry, I won't tell.

Sparky__H · 5 May 2006 at 14:41

Rich_L said:
That would be your own fault for not wearing mirrored sunglasses to hide your gaze.

Elementary summer tactics!

Blind without me speckies

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 14:42

Rich_L said:
That would be your own fault for not wearing mirrored sunglasses to hide your gaze.

Elementary summer tactics!

I know what you mean though nero120, since when did being with someone kill your 'fancy a piece of that' drive?! Nothing wrong with thinking 'phwoar' if you're going out with someone, it's the same twisted logic that makes girls think it's ok to be angry if you read FHM while you're going out with them.

Heh heh, yeah! The old classic is when they discover a tiny bit of normal pr0n on your computer and they are heart broken! God, what a drama! Thats what I mean about girls not having a clue how the male mind operates. Its simple biology!

Le_Petit_Lapin · 5 May 2006 at 14:44

To be honest, I'd choose (a) these days.

nero120 said:
Heh heh, yeah! The old classic is when they discover a tiny bit of normal pr0n on your computer and they are heart broken! God, what a drama!

If theres any drama, just go hoke out her "rabbit" and get all heartbroken about it in return.

Nix · 5 May 2006 at 14:45

You should say "I may look at other women but at the end of the day I'm with you, doesn't that say something?"

or my favourite:

"I may be on a diet but I can still look at the menu."

Sparky__H · 5 May 2006 at 14:46

nero120 said:
Heh heh, yeah! The old classic is when they discover a tiny bit of normal pr0n on your computer and they are heart broken! God, what a drama! Thats what I mean about girls not having a clue how the male mind operates. Its simple biology!

Rest assured any girl that says she doesn’t look at other men in the street or find a nude picture of an attractive man arousing is either a filthy liar, or a raving lesbian.

Vonhelmet · 5 May 2006 at 14:46

Rich_L said:
That would be your own fault for not wearing mirrored sunglasses to hide your gaze.

Elementary summer tactics!

In related news, it's always good wearing sunglasses when driving about in the summer so that when you see a fittie you can just lower your glasses a bit if you want to let them know you're checking them out.

Piggymon · 5 May 2006 at 14:49

Sparky__H said:
Rest assured any girl that says she doesn’t look at other men in the street or find a nude picture of an attractive man arousing is either a filthy liar, or a raving lesbian.

Dip me in chocolate and throw me to the lesbians then

I'm with Libs on this one .. it's not that I look at other men and think oooh but I shouldn't , I don't even NOTICE other men - It's almost like having the love blinkers on .. it's awesome :cool:

Otacon · 5 May 2006 at 14:49

vonhelmet said:
In related news, it's always good wearing sunglasses when driving about in the summer so that when you see a fittie you can just lower your glasses a bit if you want to let them know you're checking them out.

I prefer the less subtle 'OI OI' out the window myself. Might start travelling with a megaphone.

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 14:51

Piggymon said:
Dip me in chocolate and throw me to the lesbians then

I'm with Libs on this one .. it's not that I look at other men and think oooh but I shouldn't , I don't even NOTICE other men - It's almost like having the love blinkers on .. it's awesome

Trust me, Ive heard that so many times! Rest assured that your guy certainly looks at other women. I hope that doesnt bother you...

Nix · 5 May 2006 at 14:51

Otacon said:
I prefer the less subtle 'OI OI' out the window myself. Might start travelling with a megaphone.

Do you use the horn too?

Otacon · 5 May 2006 at 14:51

Only if they're really something

Piggymon · 5 May 2006 at 14:51

nero120 said:
Trust me, Ive heard that so many times! Rest assured that your guy certainly looks at other women. I hope that doesnt bother you...

I'll let him answer that one himself .....