Monogomy?

Sparky__H · 5 May 2006 at 15:04

Rich_L said:
Just cos you ate sirloin steak at the weekend doesn't mean you don't crave a McDs every now and then

Always made me laugh how these discussions always turn into a discussion about cuts of meat…

Piggymon · 5 May 2006 at 15:04

nero120 said:
If men let the little head rule the big head then we would cheat all the time. We dont, but we cannot deny the urges that we have. We keep them in check, or not, depending on what we want. But we ALWAYS have the urges, dont doubt that for a second!

I don't say that I am speaking for ALL women on this earth so I fail to understand how you can think you are speaking for ALL men ?

I'm not saying that it's not how YOU think or indeed or some other men may think but you can't possibly account for the thoughts of someone you don't even know

Rich_L · 5 May 2006 at 15:05

Hehe perhaps a Poll needed, "Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone else while in a relationship?"

Even when I was proper loved up I still thought some girls were hawt and if I were single....but I wasn't so it was swiftly forgotten with no regrets!

valerian · 5 May 2006 at 15:06

nail em both and be damned

Otacon · 5 May 2006 at 15:07

xander_uk2 · 5 May 2006 at 15:07

I'd be lying if i said i never looked (what man doesn't) and I'm engaged to be married in August!!

We've been together 5 years, and i cant imagine being with anyone else.
I'm also 25 by the way.

Women may see it as being a typical male, which i guess is true. However having thoughts like your describing, and acting on them :eek:

are two completely different things.

Nix · 5 May 2006 at 15:08

Any man who doesn't find other women attractive while in a relationship is one of the following:

a) Gay
b) Gay
c) Gay
d) Lost all hope.
e) Lost his testicles in a freak accident and laughed at on dutch television.

Rich_L · 5 May 2006 at 15:09

Hehe here's another one, has anyone had *ahem* arousing dreams about people other than their OH when in a relationship? Subconscious guilt YO!

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 15:11

xander_uk2 said:
I'd be lying if i said i never looked (what man doesn't) and I'm engaged to be married in August!!
We've been together 5 years, and i cant imagine being with anyone else.
I'm also 25 by the way.

Women may see it as being a typical male, which i guess is true. However having thoughts like your describing, and acting on them are two completely different things.

Just to add a little more spice to this thread, would you consider having a one night stand before the big night to say goodbye to freedom and hello to slavery?

squiffy · 5 May 2006 at 15:11

Piggymon said:
I don't say that I am speaking for ALL women on this earth so I fail to understand how you can think you are speaking for ALL men ?

I'm not saying that it's not how YOU think or indeed or some other men may think but you can't possibly account for the thoughts of someone you don't even know

http://www.thelocal.se/article.php?ID=3641&date=20060425

speakers for itself.. men are pervs

shifty_uk · 5 May 2006 at 15:11

Rich_L said:
Hehe here's another one, has anyone had *ahem* arousing dreams about people other than their OH when in a relationship? Subconscious guilt YO!

When I was in my last relationship, out of the 2 years I never had any dreams about any other girl what so ever, as soon as the relationship finished, about 2 days later I had a dream about a girl I like lol.

[EDIT]
It wasnt a dirty dream!!!...it was a nice dream

xander_uk2 · 5 May 2006 at 15:12

nero120 said:
Just to add a little more spice to this thread, would you consider having a one night stand before the big night to say goodbye to freedom and hello to slavery?

Not a chance in hell mate, sorry

I love her too much

Sparky__H · 5 May 2006 at 15:12

Rich_L said:
Hehe here's another one, has anyone had *ahem* arousing dreams about people other than their OH when in a relationship? Subconscious guilt YO!

Walked up to your girlfriend and started talking to her… but it soon turns out she’s not actually your girlfriend.

Vonhelmet · 5 May 2006 at 15:13

nero120 said:
Just to add a little more spice to this thread, would you consider having a one night stand before the big night to say goodbye to freedom and hello to slavery?

I'm going to throw some fuel on the fire and say that anyone who'd do such a thing shouldn't get married, as with an attitude like that they'll only go and cheat again once they are married.

Vonhelmet · 5 May 2006 at 15:14

Rich_L said:
Hehe here's another one, has anyone had *ahem* arousing dreams about people other than their OH when in a relationship? Subconscious guilt YO!

I had a dream about having a threesome with my best friend, who is female, and a male friend. I was in a very uncomfortable place.

That was quite a weird one to wake up from.

nero120 · 5 May 2006 at 15:14

Piggymon said:
I don't say that I am speaking for ALL women on this earth so I fail to understand how you can think you are speaking for ALL men ?

I'm not saying that it's not how YOU think or indeed or some other men may think but you can't possibly account for the thoughts of someone you don't even know

I am not speaking for all men at all, merely suggesting that if all men put their dicks before their minds then they would all cheat. Since they all dont dont, it might make sense that they dont all put their dicks before their minds. I realise it is a difficult thing for a woman to understand, just as Im sure women are mysteries to us guys. Though, I have met a lot of women who think like you do (from what it appears in your posts) and as such are hurt very easily when confronted with the truth (and thats not even when their guys has done something wrong!).

Edit: Im quite lucky as I am quite open about this stuff with my gf, but it was very difficult at first as she felt cheated that I looked at other women.

Rich_L · 5 May 2006 at 15:14

Hehe there's loads of great arguments on this sort of topic

Is using a prostitute cheating? If it's just a service with no emotion, isn't it the same as self-luuuuurve?

Is self-luuuurve cheating?

Libs · 5 May 2006 at 15:14

Thank you Piggy at last another decent girlie that knows where I am coming from. I must also be a raving lesbo if thats the case as i truly do not look at other guys. I also believe Gordy R and Desmo for that matter mean it when they say they dont look at other girls in that way.

Id also agree that there it is one thing saying that a man is handsome Im sure there are some out there other than our men but its another saying id want to **** them? :eek:

xander_uk2 · 5 May 2006 at 15:14

I had an unsettling dream that involved my driving instructor.... :eek:

She's a munter as well, thats what scared me.

goldilocks · 5 May 2006 at 15:16

Nix said:
How do you know you've got the best out there without looking?

i guess i just know

i'm not the sort of girl to be offended by the watching of porn, or by the oggling of other females
watching/looking can *never* be as good as performing

as for myself - i agree with piggy and libs - i appreciate that other 'people' do it - but it's not for me

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