The issue is with the, For example, 4090 which if overclocked according to AIDA64's GPGPU benchmark is a 90+ TFLOP GPU, It should be hammering everything in sight no issue.
The issue now is that we have graphics, Raster not RT, That haven't really gone very far over the last few years but require substantially more and more powerful hardware to get a decent experience.
Until real pressure is put on studios to optimize their titles to the bleeding edge nothing will change, They or more specifically the publishers don't understand anything outside of 1 thing, Profit, And until their profit margins are threatened which inturn will make the fat shareholders start frothing at their mouths, Nothing will change.