So I've been messing about with the power level on my Inno Ichill and I think I've found my sweetspot.
I've limited the power to 80% but left power as priority in Afterburner (Unlinked to temp) not sure what difference that made if any.
Raised my core clock +175mhz and mem to +1000 and I've got exactly the same performance but it doesn't go over 357w I'm happy with that.
Tested that in an area of Cyberpunk where it was pushing 440w.
The core increase brought 99% almost all the performance back within 1 or 2 FPS and then the Vram brought back the remaining 1 or 2 FPS.
I was actually quite surprised the Vram increase didn't do more it was the core clock that made most of the difference.
I'm happy with an 88w saving all with 0 performance loss, Surprising why Nvidia pushed the power on these so hard, They really didn't need it!
While I've not got a 40x0 card to test on; I'm fairly certain your memory OC is actually doing more harm than good. If memory serves (pun not intended) the VRAM is error correcting, so you can force obscene clocks and it won't really crash - but it has to do a lot more work to correct for the errors you're introducing from clocking too high. Maybe the 40x0 cards can sustain +1000mhz..... but it might be worth looking into and testing on lower mem clocks.