Man of Honour
There are many issues that have been brought up in this thread, so let me try to tackle them all.
Power usage is determined by load and efficiency, not capacity. If you take a 75% efficient 500 Watt PSU and hook it up to a 400 Watt load, you'll pull 500 Watts out of the wall. Take the same computer and put an 80% efficient 1 Kilowatt PSU on it and you'll pull only 480 Watts out of the wall. Also, with the larger PSU, you'll be running an easy 50% load so the PSU will probably last longer, and the fan will run slower, hence quieter. That's the reasoning behind having some overcapacity when you choose a PSU. 100% overcapacity like this example is, of course, overkill.
Now, if you run a 550 Watt computer with a 550 Watt PSU, the PSU won't last very long. If you don't know how many watts you need, you can kill even a rugged PSU when the last thing you want to do is waste time and money on an RMA. A little knowledge can help.
I'm surprised to see a lack of accurate wattage information in this thread. Most OC'ers and performance builders will use Watt calculators as a tool to get a close estimate of the required wattage of their rig. Then you actually know what size PSU you need. The calculator I use is at
http://www.extreme.outervision.com/powercalc.jsp
Graphics cards do not "communicate" per se, however they do interact with the power supply. There is no signal similar to PG when dealing with PCI-E. The card must require a minimum load from the psu rail within a certain number of milliseconds in order for the psu to balance loads and provide the power the GPU needs. It's not any more difficult than that.
Our design fix in response to these problems was not to fix a 'defect' in our PSU. It was to adjust our reaction to be more tolerant of certain load timing issues.
These power supplies were tested by NVIDIA themselves before we released them, and they passed all of NVIDIA's tests. We could not use the SLI logo if we had failed any of their tests. Any Quattro power supply has enough power to run a pair of 8800GTXs without breaking a sweat. There is going to be variation in your individual card, but 8800GTX cards use a slightly different amount of power than the 2900. When you do your rig's Watt calculation, try subbing in a 2900 instead of the 8800GTX and see what happens...
To see an independent evaluation of this PSU with a pair of power-hungry 2900's, please check out
http://www.hardwarecanucks.com/
and check out the head to head comparison with the Silverstone 850. My favorite quote is "Even though both the TPQ and the DA850 came out smelling like roses, the Quattro came out smelling like a whole field of roses."
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