I think that's mainly because at lower MMR people often forget to have BB.
I'm no means high MMR, 3.5k but the amount of times my position 1 has died and then not had buyback resulting in the game being finished, or close enough to finished is silly.
As for enjoying Dota, definitely play with friends. I can't stand solo queue and never play it anymore, it's just not an enjoyable experience for me.
3 stack is decent enough.
I'd love to play in a stack, but I can't find anyone to play with. I think a lot of it is probably because I suck and so it's hard to find people my level that I WANT to play with...
I wish it was as easy as just playing with friends, but it requires having friends that play Dota and that are willing to play with you.
How badly do you suck?
Im still new, hovering around 1.3k party, wont even mention solo as its a joke..played about 60% of all the heroes so still a lot to learn so don't mind playing together! Got a few friends that play but I also play at weird hours, mostly late.
If you want add me http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561197965145309/
Everytime I think about starting the all hero challenge, I realise my first hero is Brewmaster and decide against it.