That's basically the jist of the situation, yeah. I'm willing to do that, and probably will. I just feel really... dirty, because I know I'm going to preorder even though I am appalled by some of their business strategies. I feel so hypocritical and it's made me realise how little control I really have. Haha.
Look on the plus side, at least there is a way for you to play whatever race you want with your partner. Imagine if it had been WoW and your partner only wanted to play a Night Elf but you wanted to be Horde, you'd be totally stumped